Still Waiting Part II – Rahul

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Ab vo time agya tha jab hme alag hona tha humne ek dusre ko bye bola or vo apne hostel main jane lagi hum dono hi ek dusre ko last end tak dekhte rhe bht ajeeb si feeling thi achaa nai lag rha tha alag hote hue per hona to tha hi fir main vapas Jaipur k lie vha se nikal gya. Main nai janta tha pyar kya h per us time jo bhi feelings thi vo main apne words main describe hi nai kar skta. I never expected that hum itna age bhi ajaenge. Per ye sch tha ki unh bhi mjhse pyar ho gya tha ek bht advantures life mera age wait kar rhi thi pure raste bas yehi sab sochta rha esk sath ek or baat thi jo mjh bht pareshan kar rhi thi ki maine unse kuch jhoot bole the starting main or main nai chahta tha unko sch koi or batae, sch to ek na ek din samne ana hi tha per ek dar bhi tha maan main ki vo sch sun kar kaise react karengi per khn na khn decide kar lia tha ki sch btana hi h fir main jaipur phncha or thodi der unse baten ki or phr so gya next day hum uthe or good morning wish kia pta h ye hmari dono ki hi habit main tha ki hum dono jab bhi uthte the sabse pehle ek dusre ko morning wish karte mtlb sbse pehla kaam hmara yehi tha we didn’t missed a day. Usk bad hum dono hi apne college chale gae and sham ko vapas aye to phr hmari baten hone lagi dono k andar ek excitement thi dono ko or ache se janene ki because abhi tak jitni bhi baten hoti thi vo bht formally hi hoti thi or enh sab k bech main maine unh apne bare main sab sch bta dia tha ki maine unse kyu baat karna start kia, mere college ka nam etc mtlb kuch nai chupaya unse or ek baat jo mere dimag main thi ki main nai janta pyar kya hota h, bas kuch h jo main sirf apk lie feel karta hu i don’t know ki vo pyar h ya kuch or per jo bhi h main es relationship ko apna 100% dunga and she accepted me with my truth, i was happy because ek bht bada bojh dil per se utar gya tha or fir kya tha hmara pyar din per din bhadta hi gya unhone mjh btaya ek healthy relationship main 4 baton ka hona bht jaruri hota h, janena chahoge kya h vo 4 baten??
1. Commitment
2. Respect
3. Trust
4. Forgiveness

I accept friends agar ye sab apki relationship main h to ap es duniya k sabse lucky insan ho.
Or ek baat unhone mjh btayi ki healthy relationship main kuch aesi bhi chije h jo bilkul bhi nai honi chaeye vo kya h?
1. Ek dusre ki galtiyan ginana
2. Over possessiveness
3. Lie
Yhn main kuch jgh unse disagree karta tha per to bhi maine socha ki aesa hum nai karenge because hum dono hi apne relationship ko ek aese point per lejana chahte the jha hme ek dusre se koi shikayat hi na ho. Actually friends pyar hota kya h ye maine unh se sikha tha, unk thoughts kafi ache hote the main unh thoda kam follow karta tha vo ek alag baat h per try pura karta tha ki jaisa vo mjh dekhna chahti h main vaisa hi banu per vo mjhse hmesha yehi kehti thi ap jaise ho perfect ho or maine apko aese hi accept kia h to apko change hone ki khn jarurt nai h. Phr kya hmara relationship aese hi bhadta rha or hmra pyar bhi hmari ladayi bhi nai hoti thi kabhi bas main kabhi kabhi unki baton se agree nai hota tha to thoda gussa hone ka natak kar leta tha per thodi der main khud hi sahi ho jata tha phr hmari baten bht jada hone lagi per ek long distance relationship main hone ki vjh se hum mil nai pate the ek bar jab bht din ho gae to humne milne ka plan banaya main Jodhpur gya hum logo ne mandor garden main jane ka socha bht suna tha usk bare main hum log vha gaye hum dono hi thode shy nature k the mtlb publicly hum ek dusre ka hath bhi nai pakadte the per jab hum kafi der tak baat karte rhe usk bad unhone mjhse kha mjh apko hug karna h or main ek dam se daar gya ki publicly ye kaise possible h kisi ne dekh lia to kya sochega bla bla per karna to tha hi unhone kha h to mana to nai kar sakte the to humne bethe bethe hi ek dusre ko hug kia or itne main hi ek khadus aunty vha agae or unhone hme bht danta or phr kya tha mjh to itna bura lagne laga ki yr humne aesa kya kar lia or meri vjh se enko bhi sunena pad gya per hume bhi lga ki publicly hme aesa nai karna chaye tha or humne aunty ko sorry bol dia usk bad humne kabhi try nai kia publicly kuch bhi karne ka phr vo hi unka hostel jane ka time ho gya or vo chali gae or main jaipur agya. Usk kuch time bad hmara exam time agya or hum exam ki preparation main lag gae tab hum thoda kam time dete the ek dusre ko because apko pta hi h engineering student kaise hote h sabko last time main hi padna hota h or hmare exams start ho gae or dosto hmare 3 hi exam hue the or Jyo(GF) ki tbyt khrb ho gae actually unk college main bht bacho ki tbyt khrb ho gae thi to unk exam postpone ho gae to unko bech exams main hi ghr jana pada tbyt ki vjh se vo pad bhi nai payi or unk exams ache nai hue actually she was the college topper to apko pta hi hoga toppers kis trh sochte h

maine unh kha bhi ki koi na ye sab apki tbyt ki vjh se hua h or abhi to result bhi nai aya dekhte h na kya hota h, or hua bhi aesa h she got back in all three exam, but she is very strong girl unhone apne failure ko accept kia or next or ache se taeyari karne ka bola per khn na khn mere dimag main ye agya ki shayad ye meri vjh se apna 100% nai de payi maine ye unse share bhi kia per unhone mjhse yehi kha ki apki vjh se kuch bhi nai hua h and tension ki koi baat nai h ab aesa kuch nai hoga. Exam khtm hone k bad phr se hmari bht baten hone lagi or ab hum kafi comfortable ho gae the ek dusre se infact humare bech ek bht achi bonding thi hme hmesha lagta tha ki hum bht late mile hume or thoda jaldi mil jana tha hmari relationship main bht kuch bht jaldi ho rha tha mtlb with in 3 months hum bht jada kareeb agae the ek dusre k. Phr mera last year bhi agya tha or pressure bhi tha college se placed hone ka because ab mjh khud k lie nai unk lie apna carrier bana tha because jitna acha main stable hunga unko utni hi kam mehnat karni padegi apne parents ko manane k lie, hopefully main placed hua per koi bht achi job nai thi per karna to tha hi to maine vo join kar lia usk bad unka bhi college end hua or she also got placed from her college. Ab hum dono hi independent ho gae the or ek nayi life ki trf hum bhadne lage per ek long distance relationship ki vjh se hum mil nai oate the vo trivendrum main thi and main vadodra to distance kafi hone ki vjh se hum milte nai the per ha eski vjh se kabhi hmara pyar nai kam hua usk kuch din bad mjh ek achi company se offer mila and maine job switch kar lia and unka bhi transfer pune ho gya to thoda hmare lie convenient ho gya tha ek dusre se milna. Ek bar mere bhai ka birthday tha vo bhi pune main hi rehta tha or usne kafi force bhi kia ane ko to humne plan kia usk birthday per milne ka ab jab milne ka turn ata tha to ek excitement rehta tha dono k dilo main per es bar mere lie ek surprise wait kar rha tha main pune phncha to mjh pta chala jyo ki sister bhi pune ayi hue h, vaise vo mjh janti thi or hmari baat bhi hue thi 1-2 bar per kafi formally to ek comfort level nai tha mera unk sath or phr bhai ki party bhi thi to bht dino bad drinks ka bhi plan tha or didi k ane se to meri tension hi or bhad gae thi per jab main unse mila to bht jaldi vo hum logo k sath comfortable ho gae thi per tab bhi mjh ek dar to tha hi ki h to enki badi behan to ek distance to rehna chaeye per jyo always said ki aesa kuch nai h be comfortable she is very cool. Ab raat main party thi, or bhai ne jyo and unki sister ko bhi invite kar dia tha or vha bhai k sab friends ane wale the or vo sab log mjh pehle se hi jante the to mjh pta tha party main kya hone wala h esly maine socha ki hum party main nai jate h or maine jyo se ye discuss bhi kia maine unse kha ki main, ap and apki sister khn or chalte h vha jaenge to enko pta chal hi jaega ki main drink karta hu or mjh per bhi control nai ho paega vha ja kar per unh kafi trust tha apni sister per ki vo bht cool h or eaki vjh se hme kabhi koi problem nai hogi per agar hum log party main nai gae to ho skta h Didi ko thoda ajeeb lage maine bhi socha thk h chalte h try karenge na drink karne ka or hum sab party main chale gae ab vha ja kar jo hona tha vo to mjh pehle se hi pta tha maine bhai ko bol dia tha ki main drink nai karunga to vo to smjh gya tha per bhai k dosto ne jo vha natak kie uski vjh se mjh peena hi pada or vo bhi Didi k samne or jyo ne phr didi ko bta bhi dia ki ye occasionally drink karte h or Didi ne kafi coolly us time es baat ko lia ki yr en sab se kuch fark nai padta aj k time per sab karte h and even she accept in front of all of us that she also take 3-4 times to hme bhi laga ki ha sab sahi h phr to or vo time tha jab hum 3-4 din sath rhe and kafi enjoy kia or unki sister se bhi thoda frank ho gae the ab usk bad humne decide kia ki ab ghr per btate h hmari relationship k bare main to sabse pehle maine apni mummy ko btaya or mummy ne mjhse kha ki vo unse mil kar hi decide karengi ki vo es main hmara support karengi ya nai humne okay or kuch hi din bad rakhi per papa mummy ka plan hua pune jane ka or main bhi vadodra se pune agya or phr vha hum papa se jhoot bol k ki hum kuch shopping karne ja rhe h or mummy and meri sister ko jyo se milwaya or dono ko hi jyo kafi pasand ayi mtlb meri mummy kafi easily ea rishte k lie taeyar ho gae thi mummy ka to mjh pta bhi tha ki vo ready ho jaengi per main daar tha papa ka to humne decide kia ki papa ko hum unki family k reaction k according bataenge or phr turn aya unki family ko btane ka to unhone sabse pehle apni mausi ko btaya mausi easily convince bhi ho gae or unhone jyo ki mummy ko btaya mere bare main and aunty to ye sab sun kar rone lagi or unhone sab kuch uncle ko bta dia phr kya tha uncle ne jyo ko call kia or bbt kuch sunaya vo hi emotional dialogues or dono rone lage unh dekh kar jyo bhi rone lagi per unka decision kafi strong tha to vo us per adi hi rahi phr uncle aunty ne phone kaat dia phr 2-3 din yehi sab chalta rha phr uncle aunty pune gaye or jyo ko smjhaya ki abhi apne bhi apni life main kuch acha kia h or na hi us ladke ne to ap abhi k lie apne carrier per dhyan do or agar ap dono ne kuch acha achieve kia to hume es relationship se koi problem nai hogi humne bhi es baat ko accept kia or unki baat mani or phr sab normal ho gya. Ab hum dono k uper hi kafi pressure tha ab unki parents ki najro main acha karne ka mtlb tha govt job,

I was always a average student or vaise bhi mjh govt jobs pasand nai thi or na hi main itna pad skta tha usk lie and ye sab baten jyo bht pehle se hi janti thi rhan we decided ki main apna koi business start karta hu and she will prepare for govt job. Ab sabse bada challenge tha business idea ka or use successful karne ka per kuch to karna hi tha humne ache se sochne ka time lia and ese sochte hue hme 6 months nikal gae or esi bech ek bht badi problem ho gae uncle ko khn se pta chal gya tha ki didi bhi mjh janti h or mjhse mili bhi h usk bad uncle ne didi ko bht danta or bole ki vo tmhri choti behan thi per tum to badi thi agar vo ek galat side main ja rhi thi to tumne use smbhala kyu nai or itna sun kar to Didi ne unh sab sch bta dia didi janti thi maine shuru main jo bhi jhoot bole the usk bare main vo mjh tbhi pta chala ki jyo sab kuch unse share karti thi or didi ne sab kuch uncle ko bta dia infact main drink karta hu ye bhi mtlb mera to first impression hi khrab ho gya tha jyo ne baton ko smbhalne ka bht try kia per uski kisi ne suni hi nai phr kya tha hum ek dusre se alag ho nai sakte the or hme kaise bhi kar k apne parents ko manana hi tha per ek baat thi jo humne hmesha se decide kar rkhi thi ki hum kabhi bhag kar shadi nai karenge chahe humari shadi na ho or hum kisi or se bhi nai karenge and this decision was her and i said okay i don’t have any problem in that. Usk bad she resigned from her job and we started living in live in relationship and jab hum dono sath aye tab jyo ne mjh ek business idea dia car rental services ka or mjh bhi vo sahi laga jada investment bhi nai tha or ek achi income ho sakti thi maine bhi apni job se resign kia and 2 months notice period tha vo time hum sath rahe or hmara vo time kafi acha rha usi bech unka railways main selection bhi ho gya tha or unh posting bhi ajmer mili thi to hum khush the ki hum pass hi rahenge jaipur ajmer kafi pass pass hi h usk bad vo apne ghr chali gae or main apne ghr per agya and papa se baat karni business ko lekar and papa ne bhi mjh support kia and start my business and humne kafi acha business set kar lia tha 1 saal main hi tab tak jyo bhi ajmer agae thi to hum logo ka milna bhi ho jata tha or kafi kuch sahi chal rha tha life main bas kabhi kabhi jyo ki ladai ho jati thi parents se mjh lekar per she is really a very strong and vo sab kuch ache ae manage kar rhi thi.

Sorry dosto story thodi lambi h or main writter bhi acha nai hu, per ha itna jarur h ki apko es story se bht kuch sikhne ko milega main jald hi age ki story post karunga.

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