ye koi kahaani nhi hmari bdti duriya or meri paas aati maut ki daastan h. shuruaat 2014 ki april ko hui jab usne muje i love u kaha or bs mne apni life uske naam kar di usi pal.
subh 9 bje uthne vala m ab 5 bje uthke us se fb pe bat krta or rat ko late tk usi se bat krta rehta. bot c bate thi ek dusre ko btane ko. beet gyi zindagi k sab raaj hmne ek dusre se share kiye.
ham 2 se ek ho gye the sach me. m khud ko bot lucky samajta tha ki vo muje mili bcz mera rang sanwla h or m hmesha se yhi sochta tha ki mujse koi larki pyar ni kregi or vo pariyo si sundar. na jane kese use mujse pyar ho gya.
hmne apna facebook,gmail pw same kr liya, uska or mera naam jod kar . ab hm me kuchh b chhupa hua nhi tha.
b.tech first year tha hmara. vo pdne me bot intelligent thi or m bilkul dhyan ni deta tha pdhayi me…m to usi me khoya rehta tha.
ham ab shadi k sapne dekhne lge the. kese hmari shadi hogi..kesa function hoga. par ham darte b the sachayi se ki kese ham parents ko mnayege kyoki vo HINDU or m PUNJABI (Sikh).
3 sal ho gye h relation ko or in 3 salo me bot kuch hua…ldayia b bot hui par kbi 2-3 ghante se jyada naraj na reh ske ek dusre se or jab man jate to or b jyada pyar aata ek dusre pe.
6th sem k bad ham summer training k liye Jaipur gye. vha ham azad panchhi se ho gye. hme koi nhi janta vha or na kisi ka dar. hath me hath dal k ghumte…hug krte.
nahargarh,amer fort,city palace,birla mandir,wtp,gt har jagah ghume sath sath.
jawahar circle park me bethe rehte pura din.
vakt pta hi ni lga kese gujrta gya.ab uske ghar uske rishte ki bate hone lgi thi. vo muje kehti koi job dundo aap vrna ham gharpe bat kese krege. mne kaha tu pdne me mujse kahi jyada tej h tu govt job ki tyari kr…tu lg jayegi to ek hi bat h fir mere pas vakt hoga khud ka koi business krne ka.
ese hi sochte sochte hamne bot time barbad kr diya.
ab ham b.tech 8th sem me h. vo kehti h muje apne parents se pyar h m unke khilaf nhi ja skti vrna vo mar jayege agar mne esa koi step uthaya…m bot gidgidaya ki m b to mar jauga agar tune kisi or se shadi ki…jab vo kisi larke se haske bat kr leti thi m to tb b bot jealousy feel krta tha to m kese use kisi or ki hote dekh sakta hu.par vo nhi mani. ab m rat ko akela jagta rota hu soch soch k ki kese m sehan kruga jab vo kisi or ki ho jayegi. vo kehti ki hmne jo sapne liye vo nadani me liye the ese apne parents ko nhi chhoda ja skta. m jab b shadi ki bat krta use bot gussa aa jata.
mne uski khushi k liye to keh diya ki thik h m tuje nhi kahuga ki mujse shadi kar. par har roj ye bat soch soch k rona aata rehta h.
muje lgta h m sehan ni kar pauga jab vo kisi or ki ho jayegi. mar jauga m uske bina.
m samaj sakta hu ki maa baap ki ahmiyat sabse jyada hoti h or vo unhe dukh ni pahuchana chahti. vo dil ki bot achi h or aaj tak usne meri har bat mani..ek bar mne use guse me keh diya ki clg me kisi b larke se bat ni kregi tu to usne kbi kisi ko bulaya b nhi kyi mahine tk jb tk mne khud ni kaha ki koi ni bat kr liya kar. uske liye sabse important m hu or mere liye usne bot se apne frnds ko chhoda par apne parents k liye mujse dur ja rhi h ab par mere liye uske bina jina possible nhi h or agar usne kisi or se shadi ki to uski shadi k din hi m sucide kr luga
plz muje koi rasta btao ki m kese use mna lu ki muje chhod kar na jaye. m to us se promise b kr chuka hu ki m us se shadi ki bat ni kruga ab kbi to m kya kru ya apne pyar k liye khud ko mar lu….
Do you have a story? Click here to submit it / Connect with the admin
Koi baat nhi aap tym rehte pehele hi apna job lagaalo kyun ki wo v yehi hi chahti hai agr aap koi job lagaa loge toh aapka ability sabit karega uski perents k samne ki aap use bht khus rakhenge aur sachayi toh aap b jante hein ki sirf pyr se zindegi nhi guzarta kuch aur b jarurat padh hi jati hai is zindegi sawane k liye so aap future ko dhyan mai rakhte hue aage badhen m sure ki apko wo jarur milegi…
Navi tum itne smjhdar hokr ye kesi bate kr rhe ho…kya maut har chiz ka solution h kya maut se har imtihaan jita ja skta h nhi…..fir mana ki tum aj mushkil me ho pr tum ye q nhi sochte ki agr wo khush thegi to tum use khush dekhkr b khush reh skte ho pyr sirf pane ka naam nhi h…..me smJhti hu ki is wqt tum pr jo guzr rhi h wo mushil ghadi h pr tum sirf khud ke bare me soch rhe ho koi b itna welfish kese ho skta h wo agr apne parents ki wjh se aisa kr rhi h to wo glt nhi h or glt to tum b nhi ho qki tumne b mohabbat ki h mohabbat kbi glt nhi hoti pr pehla pyr har kisi ka uske ma bap hote h….tum marna chahte ho koi rasta nhi h fine mar jao fir….. kbi unke bare me socha h jo tumhe is duniya me laye jinhone kitne khuwab dekhe honge tumhare liye agr tumhe kuch ho gya to kese jiyenge tumhare ma bap… ham apne bare me bht jldi soch lete kbi unke bare me nhi sochte jinhone puri zindgi hm pr luta di… maut kisi b mushkil ka hal nhi h blki uljhn h….jo hmare bad hmare apno ko jhelni pdti h… me ye ni kehti tum use bhul jao nhi mt chhodo ummeed ka daman qki jb tk ummeed h tb tk sb kuch h…are khud ko is kabil bnao taki wo aram se keh ske ki wo tumse shadi krna chahti h wo nhi to tum mna sko uske ghrwalo ko …..me dua krungi tumhe mil jaye…Aameen.
yrr sbse pehle to job dundo agar job time or nhi mil rhi to uske parents se tum or tumhare parents jaakar baat kr lo thoda time bhi le lo ki jab tak job nhi lgti toh thoda wait kre unke parents ko btao ki tum unki beti se bahut pyar krte ho life me hamesha kuch try krte raho agar himmat haar jaoge te vo tumko kabhi nhi mil payegi best of luck
Aisha hota tore hi he
im totaly agree wid aksha..Suiside krna hr prblms ka solution nhi he..Agr aisa hota to duniya me population itna hota hi nhi..
Agr 2m usse pana chahte ho to job dhundo..Usne v to tmse yhi kha tha na..agr job krne k baad v unke parents tmhe accpt na kre to jyada dukh mat krna or apne future pr focus krno..taki ek din sblog tmpr proud kr sake..Bst of luck..
Yr…Sbse pehle…To the mrne ki baate Mt kro..Or job dhundo.nd uske parents s baat kro. Agr job nhi bhi mil rhi h to..Uske parents ko bolo ki mujhe thoda tym de ….Or kehna ki m apki ldki s bhut jyada pyar krta hu ..uska Hmesha Khyal rkhuga. Apni jaan se bhi Jyada usse pyar krta hu….Uski aankhon m kbhi aansu nhi aane dunga..Or koshish. Kro ki job jaldi mil jaye..Har ldki k liye uske mumy papa important hote h…. Usne thik kiya ki usne apne mumy papa ki chuna…Such baat to ye h.ki meri lyf m bhi yhi tym aaya tha..Pr situation thodi or thi..M 1st year m ho gyi thi…Hmare relationship ko 2 years hone wale the..Pr Hmari problem cast ki thi …Uski cast meri cast s Kuch or thi…..Or mere ghr wale Kehte the ki shadi to ldki apni cast m hi krwayege….Ghr walo ko nhi pta tha hmare reletion k baare m..Nd Mene usko bola ki hum ek nhi ho skte. ..Usne jb ye suna to vo bhut roya mujhe bhi bhut Rona aaya…Usne bola kisko chunegi…Mene kha ghr walo ko….Or Mene usse break up kr liya..Aj bhi usko mera intzar h..ab clg m final year m ho gyi hu..M us ldki ki problem smjh skti hu usne apne mom dad ko chunaa usne thik kiya..halat aage hm mjbur h …..Pr usne kbhi mujhe se baat krneki koshish ni ki….Pr ap aisa Mt krna usko lyf m lekr aana.Vo apka intzar KR rhi h…M janti hu uske dil m kya h …Vo chahti h ki ap job lekr uske pass aaye …Uske mom dad s baat kre or khushi khushi apki shadi ho…Or Kuch bhi ho ap koshish krna Mt chodna…Mrne ki to sochna Mt ye paglpn hota h mrne ki baate krna..M god se pray krugi ki apko Apna pyar mil jaye…….
yrr…..merii bi story kuch aisi hi h…btt mrna kisi chiz ka solution nhi h….isliye…tum job dundo sbse phle….apne aap ko capable kro…uske ghrwalo se baat kro…I think…vo tumhe jrur milegii….I hope & prey for god..
q kii meri bi kahni esi hi h…hmri prblm cast kii h….hmne apne parents ko nhi btya…q kii hme pta h…kii ghrwale nhi mange…..btt m…bi job kii tyri kr rha hu…taaki…m .uske ghrwalo ko visws dila SKU…kii mm unkii betii ko khus rakhuga….m bhutt pyar krta hu USSe…
finally….ek baat btna gyzz…muge job mil gyi…phir bi uske ghwle nhi maane..to m kya kru phir….???
navi mene bhi jis ladki ko dilojan se chaha,Usne mujse kaha ki me jab job lag jau,then she will marry me,aaj me gov.job me hu nd earning handsome salary but usne muj ye kehkar chod diya ki me uske kaabil nhi or vo kisi or ko like karti he
yuvraj here…
jis ladki ne muj chod diya to uska matlab ye to nahi ki me suicide committ karu,are navi sacche pyar karne vale to apne pyar ki khushi k liye jeete he marte nhi,meri gf mujse baat nhi karti phir b aasha he ki vo jarur lotegi