Hey friendzzz…. Actually buhat dino se site pe aa raha hu….koi story le ke nahi bas chota sa experience le ke….I hope aapke acha lage… Mai pehle hi bata du ke yeh koi story nahi hai…bas ek question hai jo shayad har kisi ke dil mai hai ke ye ” pyar , love , ishq aur mohabbat ye sab kya hota hai….wo jo hum filmo mai dekhte hai ya kuch aur….. I dont know yeh question mere dil mai kyu aaya, lekin main aap ko my personal experience plus my very close observation k basis pe answer karuga… 1st My Experience from other people: Aaj kal k log pyar ka meaning 10% bhi understand nahi karte mostly movies jis type ka pyar dekhati hai like sub kuch perfect wala, real life waisi nahi. But people have common misconceptions about love, sub se bari galaat fehmi;
“PYAR PEHLI NAZAR MAI HOTA HAI”, dusri galaat fehmi “PYAR MAI DONO LOG CHAHE KUCH BHI HO JAYE AIK DUSRAY K SIWA KUCH NAHI DEKHTE”, Third galaat fehmi, “PYAR MAIN EXPECT KARNA NATURAL HAI”, issi type ki kafi misconceptions hain, i’ll explain why i call them mis-conceptions. Pehli baat ka jawab: Pyar agar pehli nazar ki base pe ho, toh waja hoti hai larki ya larkay ki 
personality, am i right? What about nature? aap ne suna toh hoga na k, Muhabaat ki buniyaad hai TRUST, so pehli nazar main toh kiya friendz aap jab tak pyar mai mushkil halaat ka samna na kar lo, ye andaza laga hi nahi sakte k agla TRUST k qabil hai ya nahi, ya agla aap pe TRUST karta hai ya nahi. So falling in love at first sight aaj kal k fast aur materialistic daur main bohat immature sound karta hai, pehli nazar main insan sirf kisi ki shakal, personality, uss ki gari, dress wagera se he impress hota hai. Woh cheeze pyar ho he nahi sakti. Because love does not happen like a FIRE WORK… Dusri baat ka jawab: As i said some people believe k pyar main aik dusray k siwa kuch aur priority pe nahi hota, ya nahi hona chaheye… well ye galaat thinking hai, pyar main beshak aap k liye aap ka sathi bohat special hai, magar keeping balance in all basic relations, like ur mom, dad, and ur partner is very important. Lekin aaj kal k trend ke mutabik girls try to pull a man totally towards them, and make him neglect his mom and dad,
( not all girls)aur kuch cases main even boys push girls so much that they neglect their parents. Aysa galaat hai, love give u wisdom and strength to keep balance in all relations and tackle the difference of opinion on either sides. Muhabaat aap ko dusray relations se dur nahi karti balkay aap k ander itna pyar bhar deti hai, k u start loving everything more. Zindagi se pyar ho jata hai aap ko, aur sab se zyada muhabaat aap ko aap k Khuda k aur kareeb kar deti hai. When u are in true love, trust me u feel like GOD is blessing u with every breath u take. Third Baat ka Jawab: Muhabaat ka matlab hota hai, apni zaat ki nafi… mera matlab losing self respect bilkul nahi hai. Magar aik hota hai na her cheeze main aap apni zaat ko priority detay ho, jaysay kiya khana hai, kiya pehnana hai, lekin real pyar main aksar khud ki khushi se ziada dusray ki khusi ka khayal rakhna parta hai. Aur iss baat ka start hota hai jab aap expect karna chor detay ho, which is very very very hard to do. Like aap k partner ne call nahi kiya, message ka reply nahi kiya, mil nahi saka, log inn batao pe janwaro ki tarah larte hai, shak kartay hai, even jasoosiyaan bhi karte hai some cases mai.Lekin true love mai zaat ki nafi ehsaas hoti hai k, aap iss baat ki parwa nahi karte k agla aap k siwa kisi aur se baat karta hai, ya uss ne call nahi kia etc etc, cause apnay pyar pe bharosa hona chahiye, agar aap kisi ki khushi k liye apni khushi ki qurbani do, toh khuda kabhi waste nahi jane deta, magar hmara problem ye hai k pyar ko pyar tab maante hai jab woh samne nazar aa raha ho, jab ke real love lafzo tak ka muhtaaj nahi hota. I know bohat se logo ko meri batain kitabi etc etc lagain ge, lekin mera experience kehta hai k inhi kitabi batoon ne, mujhay pyar karna seekhaya, aur issi pyar ki bases pe kisi ki zindagi badal de….. sooooo friendzzz koi baat galat likhi ho to iss na- chiz ko maaf kar dena….good bye
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Sun yr ye dekh site…confusion dur ho jayege..
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Comment…hum tum bhul jaye aisa ho ni skta h…bt tumne hame bhula diya to smjho is duniya mein hm ni h 🙂
Dp sonu ptpt
Mai pagal ho jau ga
Aapney shi kaha aaj k generation me luv face dekh k hoti h n har 2din me hoti
Aaj hr kisk bf y gf h relationship v 2 y 4 month hi chalti fir koi gf y bf dundo ye luv nhi bus tym pass hoti kisek saath to wafa karo
n meri thinking h luv karna galat nhi but mrg k baad hubby se y wife se karo r hum luv me mrg k baad hi believe krty h
r ku6 galat likha to sry
Aasalam alaiykum frndzz
S bhai vin bhai irf bhai bhul gye humein n syt pahley jaisi ho gyi plzz come back
GM…every 1
zarkha…itni rat ko jugnu ki trh na chamkap…kro…pk mutthi me chupakar le jayega..
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Good morning sab ko
Koi h yaha
apki ek-ek baat se rahmat hu m dost..b’coz m khud exactly esa hi sochti hun.. pyar, muhbbt k bare me jo meri soch h bilkul esh hi h.. jise aj ki gen. bhale hi Kitabi baten kahe.. lakin pyar, muhbbt ka asal roop h to yahi.. M khud maanti hu.. n thanx yr
thanx ki apne aj wo sb likha jo m kehna pasand karti hun hamesha.. thanx for sharing my thoughts… thanx
n a big thanx to sunil sir (admin) ki unhone site ko use karne layak bana diya… pehle jesa na sahi bt fir b last theme se to kafi behtar h.. thanx sir agar ap cmt padh rahe ho to… thanx
Thanx 2 all sab ko ke aap sab ko meri soch paand aayi….lakin kuch log hai jo shayad meri baat se agree nahi karte lakin meri nazar mai pyar to issi ko kehta hai…..
Are mohsin apne likha h kya yr,…btana chahiye na….
mujhe apki soch psnd aai….koi h to is gole par jo ye sb sochte ha..
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science ke point of view se kh rha tha…na ki aashiqi…..
Love sense is the beautiful way of keeping human being alive nd reproducing..
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mohsin agar tumhe is gole par rhne h……rules follow krne padege….yr..
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pyar v bs wohi ek rule…..h
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Hey bro ye pyar hai koi policy thodi jis mai rules & regulation wagaira honge…pyar mai na sirf pyar hota hai aur kuch nahi…
yaaaa i admit it, i thing ,,,,,,,,,,,,, actuly mera hmesha se yhi question rha hai ki pyar kya hai kaisi feeling hai ye becauase mujhe ajtk kisi se love nhi hua kisi ko belive nhi hota even i don’t care, 23 ki complete hone wali hu but today read yr lines m understanding not exactly but something i got n thanx for such a true lines
Mohsin..yr…tum smj ni rhe ho me kis rule ki bt kr rha….
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love ka mtlb h isse world ki population bdti h…..
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love krna ya na krna…tumhare uper h, koi time waste krta h…..tumhe krna h to kro….thoda time to waste hi krna chahiye….
love is your part of your life not life….to us part ko enjoy krna tumhare h
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me to khta hu ek br zindagi mein pyr krna chahiye duniya bdl deta h….atleast experience to krna chahiye
Chl me short me btatu hu tumhari langauage mein..
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jb mohabbat ek tarfa hoti h to ek shayar ko janm deti h
ex…khud ho
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jb mohabbat 2 tarfa hoti h to ek baby ko janm deti h
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jb mohabbat 2 no tarf se ni hoti…..to log mohabbat ko bdnam krte h….ye log wohi h jo mohabbat to krna chahte h pr drte h jamane se……
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mohabbat na shi experience to kro yr….
Ab btou mohsin
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SHAYAR bnana h JORU KA GULAM
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we all go to the forward modern culture….aisa hona hi….ise koi ni skta
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ajkl ka pyar logo ne majak bna ke rakha h….
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mohsin tumne to yr jabardast research….well done great work….
love is really nthing exepect false……
oh mohsin… to j apne likha h… very nice yr… apne esh hi muhbbt ki h ya fir jesi b ki h wo to khuda jaanta h … lakin is post me baten bht achhi ki h apne… bilkul meri pasand ki.. I appriciate ur thoughts
n dont worry yr.. Ki kon kya sochta h.. B’coz hum kuchh kare ya kahen uske prati hr ek ka nazariya ek sa ho.. ye zaruri to nahi hota na.. h na
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hey muje koi ye to batao k ek cmt k bad firse kyu email add ya name likhna padta he..???
Bro ye tumhari soch hai…meri nahi aur zaruri nahi ke sab ki soch ek jaisI ho….aur rahi baat mohabbat ki to bhai to mohabbat ki nahi jati ho jati hai…
Right bindu ji….
Mera bhi yahi nazarya hai lakin aaj kal kuch log hote hai….jo sirf pyar ko pana chata hai nibhana nahi
Assalamualaikum.. r8
mohsin
Hey dipika
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plzzzzz admin ji humari arziya sun lijie……
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OK by zarkha ji…
Zarkha…apko koi propose krne wala h aaj dhyan se……
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Kis ki itni zurat merey s bhai aap yehi pr h koi aisa karenga hi nhi sab darty h ap se ha ha ha ha
Humlog aisey v chat kr sakty h insaallah admin g syt thik kr dengey
Daro mt zarkha….mein hi propose karunga.
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hahahahaha…admin v propose krne wala h aj….dhyan se dil bahar na aa jaye
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Is syt k sarey boy ko hum bhai hi khtey h n bhai bhai hi hota h
Mein tumhara bhai ni hu…admin tumhara bhai h
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Sb ladkiyaa mujhe bhai khegi…
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R waisey v mera dil bhut kamzor h reall me bahar aa jayenga
Zarkha..d..ab thik h
apna intro do aap…kha se ho…
But hum to aapko bhai hi samjtey h bhv mrg krengi is syt se dhundey bhv
OK bhai aap d bol saktey izzat n ehtaram sirf bado ko nhi choto ko v d zati h r hum aapko 2 baar intro de chuke h
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Gye kya aap
D….ni yhi hu
Awaiting me cmnt q ja rhi h
D…khuda aafij kb bolte h or allah aafij kb bolte h
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Aap muslim nhi h isliye samj nhi aati h aapko
Irf bhai ko samaj aati hogi n aap gayaab to byy bhai
Site hack ho jati h….
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may be…
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12th ka result aa gya ???
D…apko b.sc mein kuch help chahiye….mein bta dunga . Ok
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Hlw dp g kaisi h aap
me acchi hu aur aap zarkha ji
are bhai.somi irfn ji sonu ji.harry ji.raaz ji sab kaha ho…
are fir se sab kuch fill karna padta he fir mes type karna padta he kya karu ab??
Mai v n aap bataye lyf me kya ho raha h n intro de
koi to aa jao yar…..site suni ho gai yar…
Mai hu
me v acchi hu.aur me Surat Gujarat se hu aur b.a 2nd yr me hu aur aap..
zarkha ji aap kya kar rahe ho avi ..
Ha dp g kya krey ku6 samaz nhi as rhi h admin ans nhi detey h
Humney intro diya h uper aap padh liziye
ha zarkha ji admin ji ne site ko kesa kar diya he..mene unko mes v bheja PR reply hi nai aya
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Dp g namaz tym honey wali h hum nyt me 11.20 pm me aayengey aap v aana
OK zarkha ji byyy take care…
Hi..DP..
tum kaisi ho
mene teko bhut miss kiya…
me acchi hu aur aap kese ho humne v apko miss kiya sonu ji. spacialy apki casenovapanti ko….hahaha..
ohhh really…..
vaise apne hamhe q miss kiya..
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aap he is site ke majanu….hahaha
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Aaj se mainban gayare majnu.
Dekh ke tujhkolaila. Main baabu
chhaila.Oho ho main baabu
chhaila. Chhaila baabu ..
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Hlw frndzz koi h??
S bhai dp g jiya g kaha h aap log
Kisi ko nhi aana h kya am waiting dp g
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Mujhe kuch samjh nhi aa rha hai
Ye site kb shi hoga
D aap kaisi ho
Jiya dhadak dhadak
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Jay mata di
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Admin g aap ney kya kiya
Aap ho ya nhi cmnt dikhti q nhi parshaan ho gye hum
S bhaiiiii bhaiiii
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Admin g aap ne nw version bnaya shi h qki nw try krna chahiye but rcnt cmnt kr dy
D…..aap PR hoooo
To ku6 farmaiye chup q h
Mtlb aap pr hu
Comment…kya m b frnd bnn skta Hu……..?
D…..apko gaana sunne keep liye mere band ka wait krna hoga
bye D sona h mujhe
Okk wait krengy pr avi to ku6 sunaye Jo aap k fav song h
Aap d mat kahey hum aap se choty h aapki age 19 h n meri 17 to plzz no di
Gud nyt n swt drmz
Comment…I m totally agree with ur experience by ur views I stopped to flut with my gf beciz I don’t love her
Gud ni8 sweet dream
hey hey..in bato me kuch nhi rakha hai, come let’s fall in love..fir dekho duniya kitni khubsurat lagegi
pyar ko difine krne ke bajay khud pyar karo..now watch Veer Zara
Comment…mujhe har ladki se pyar ho jata h aisa q ???
Comment…hello friendzzz how are you kaise ho sab
Comment…hlw friendzz how are you ….?
Apne Jo likha oh sach hai or bohut assalm laga
nice
hiii…..!
my name is prince
mera pahela Q. to ye he ki aap ne kabhi kisi se pyar kiya hai.
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meri love life ka experiance mujhe sikhata hai ki agar waqt par izhar na karo to puri zindagi pachhtana padta hai.
sorry me apni story le ke beth gya
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tum apni jagah per sahi ho
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bhagwan ne sabko ek jaisi soch nahi di hai
so aap apni jagah per sahi ho aur dusre log unki jagah per sahi hai.
par haa ek baat kehna chahunga ki
“FIRST LOVE WILL NEVER DIE,
BUT SOMETHING DIE WITH FIRST LOVE”
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i think aap samaj gye hoge.
aur
aap meri story bhi padh sakte ho. meri story ka name hai
“MERI ADHURI KAHANI SUNO…!”
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THANK YOU
Very nice story…really bhut awesome baatein nahi apne..pyar k bare Mein..
I m totally agree with u.qki ye sb khud mene b experience kia h.pyar agr phli nzr m hota b h to manlo fr uske nature k bare m hme lge k wo bht khrab h,tb to gya na pyar bhad m.
Mujhe or mere partner ko kbhi zrurt b nhi pdti baat baat pr ek dusre ko realize krane ki hm ek dusre ko kitna pyar krte h,haa hmare bich itni problems b aai k ek arse tk hmne baat nhi ki fr b hm aj sath h
Ek dusre ki psnd na psnd ka khyal to khu hi aa jata h jb hm dil se care krte h,uske lie hr tym show krne ki zrurt nhi pdti
Apki lines bilkul true h?
2nd wala prft.laga .Aksar aadmi apne jarurat aur chahat me unhe bhul jaya karte hai jino ne hame apne chahat shkhayi ho,APNI CHAHAT KO CHAHNA SIKHAYA HO ab ye bhi lkhna parega ki kon hai aisa.Itna papi nahi hu mai coz wae log bht mahan hote hai nm kaise l
aksar hm unke liye aisa karte hai jo hame gaudhaliwila ke pahle mahan aur panchi ke jagne se pahle haram banane ki shakti rakhta hai.par yad rakhna WO DO AADMI TUMHE HAR KISMAT ME ACCEPT KARNE KA TAQUAT RAKHTE H ITNA BADA AUR UDAR HOTA H UNKA HIRDAY