hi frnds….mera naam aisha hai..
meri bhi ek pyaar ki kahani hai jo shayad apme se kisine kabhi nhi suni hogi..
iss kahani ki shuruat is may ke starting mei hui.tab mere ssc exams ke baad ki chhuttiya chal rhi thi.maine 1st may ko apni new fb id creat ki..aur usi raat mujhe ek ladke ki request aai..and guess wat wo ladka mera cousin tha Altamash…hm ek dusre ko jante the pr kabhi baat nhi hui thi .wo bhi meri hi tarah sharmata tha..uss din hmne raat mei baat shuru ki.hmne uss raat 2 bje tak baat ki..aur aise hi fir roz krne lge..wo mujhse 6 saal bada h lkin as we all know pyaar mei koi umar nhi hoti….agle din usne mujhe uski past story btaya..wo ek lakdi ke sath 7 saal relation mei tha bt unfortunately iss january mei uss ladki ne usse breakup krli aur dusre city chali gai..wo uss ladki se apni jaan se b zada pyaar krta tha..usne mujhe btaya ki uske paas jeene ki koi wajah hi nhi h…uski baato se mai pighalne lgi..aur mujhe yeh pta chala ki wo ander se pura tut chuka hai…
hmlog aise hi baat krne lge apni life ke baare mei..5 may ko uska bday tha maine use raat mei wish ki..wo bht khush hua..10 may ko mera bhi bday tha bt wo bhul gya…uss din maine usse baat nhi ki.fir usne pucha kya hua maine btaya ki wo mera bday bhul gya..fir usne srry kaha then everything was alright..actually tab maine bilkul nhi socha tha ki usse hi mujhe pyaar ho jayega..mai use apne cousin ki tarah baat krti thi..bttt 15 days ke baad mujhe aisa lgne lga ki i started liking him..wo roz hmare ghar aane lga(as he was my relative)…mai roz use dekhti pr kabhi baat nhi ki sabke saamne..wo bht pyaari baate krta tha aur hmesha flirt krta tha.maine din usse kaha ki itni pyaari baate mt kiya kro nhi to prblm ho jayegi..usne pucha konsi prblm..maine kaha baadme btaungi but wo samj gya tha..fir usne kaha call pr kab baat krogi.maine kaha call ki kya zarurt friends ke liye chatting ki kafi hai..bt usne kaha nhi mujhe baat krni h kuch bolna h ..to fir maine kaha thik h pune jakr call krungi..(actually meri family pune mei rehti hai due to my fathers job mai chhuttiyo mei apni dadi ke ghar aai thi)fir usne kaha thik hai…
then on 28th may mera ssc result aya and i got 83 percent…uss raat wo aya hmare ghar congratulate kiya..fir finally on 30th may he proposed me..uss waqt mujhe lga mazak kr rha h maine uska reply nhi ki..lkin agle din wo bola jawab kab dogi tum??…maine usse pucha ki wo serious tha kya.usne kaha haa bilkul..maine usse kaha ki mujhe waqt chahiye..usne ok kaha..btt mai reh nhi paai mujhe bhi usse pyaar ho gya tha maine usi din uska jawab de diya..i love u too…wo bht khush hua..fir agle din hm pune chale gae…pune jakr bhi hmari chatting chal rahi thi aise hi ek mahina beer gya..fir mera college start hua(junior college)…maine ek din use call ki first time…wo bilkul surprised tha aur kuch bol hi nhi paa rha tha…fir hmne roz call pr baat krna shuru ki..mai use college se hi call krti thi bcoz ghar pr mummy nhi krne dete..hmare relation ko do mahine ho gae then fir wo ek din mujhe milne aya..hm mall gae movie dekhi..ek sath hath pakadkr ghume…that was my happiest day.fir mai ghar aa gai aur wo apne city aa gya(2 hourse ki journey hai uske city se pune tak ki)…ek din mere dusre cousin ne meri fb id hack krli aur use sab kuch pta chal gya usne mujhse kaha ki wo timepaas kr rha h mere sath tab maine altamash se kaha yeh sab to usne apne khun se i love likhkr send kiya aur pucha ki tumhe ab bhi lgta hai ki mai time paas kr rha hu??…
fir mujhe uske pyaar pr ykin ho gya…fir 7th oct le raat mai usse call pr baat kr rhi thi tabhi mere mummy ne sun liye ..then uske baad kya hona tha..mummy aakr puchne lge kisse baat kr rhi thi..fir wohi sab prblms hui jo hoti hai..sabko pta chal gya agle din mere uncle ne usse baat ki (he is my relative)usne unse kaha ki usse galti ho gai aut mafi maangi…mai uss waqt call pr sab sun rhi thi usi ne kaha tha ki suno kya kya bolre mere uncle..maine unki puri baate suni actually mere uncle nhi chahte ki hm realtion mei rahe unhone usse kaha ki wo mere jaise dus ladkiya use laakr de skte hai..maine sab sun li..hmari baate waise hi chali do teen din…fir mere mummy ne mujhe emotional kiya aur maine unki baato mei aakr usse breakup kr liya..wo hmesha kehta tha ki wo meri khushi ke liye apni khushi kurbann kr skta hai..aur uss din shayad usni apni wo qurbani di wo tayyar ho gya brkup k liye…lkin mai uske bina do ghante bhi nhi reh paai..maine apni mummy se baat ki aur kaha ki mujhe wo bht pasand h aut mai usi se shadi krungi..yeh sunkr mummy rone lge aur agle hi din mere dadi aae pune mujhe samjhane…and the worst thing was that yeh sab mere terminal exam ke dauraan hua..agle din mere dadi aae aur mujhe altamash ke baare mei aisi aisi baate btai ki mai haeraan reh gai..unhone btae ki wo drugs leta hai …
call girls ke paas jata hai…even yeh bhi btae ki use AIDS hai..yeh sunkr mai bilkul depression mei chali gai aur unhone yeh bhi kaha ki wo mujhse pyaar nhi krta bas timepaas kr rha hai….maine tab unki har baat pr ykin kr li aur unse sab bta diya…fir ussi raat unhone sab khatam krne ki baat ki aur mere bhaiyo se kaha ki mere saare pics delete krdo uske phone mei se..jab mere bhai pics delete krne gae tab uske mom dad ko pta chal gya aur uske mummy ne use bht maare….mujhe mere bhai ne btaya ki usne sara ilzam mujhpr lga diya uske mummy ke saamne aur yeh kaha ki maine use propose ki thi…mujhe bht gussa aya uspr maine ek hafta usse koi contact nhi ki aur mere mummy ne mera no. bhi change kr diye the…
mai wo pura ek hafta roti rhi..then ek din maine apni friend se kaha ki usse call krke usse kaho ki usne jo kiya acha nhi kiya.meri frnd ne use call ki aur jaisa maine kaha tha wohi boli wo usse..usne meri frnd se kaha ki yeh sab jhut hai..aur meri frnd se kaha ki mujhe aisha se baat krni hai use pta nhi tha ki mai uski baaye sun rhi hu..meri frnd ne kaha ki thik hai mai krwati hu..fir maine use call ki aur saare baate puche.wo haeraan reh gya yeh sab sunkr aur usne kaha ki yeb sab jhut hai drugs wali baat call girls wali etc etc……mai usse itna pyaar krti hu ki uske ek baar bolne mei hi maine uske baato pr ykin kr li..lkin usne ek galti ki thi tab bt ab tak qabool nhi kiya apni glti..usne tab mere bhai se kaha tha ki mai dusro ladko se bhi baat krti hu..use maine apne ek frnd ke baare mei btai thi aur wo hmesha usse chidta tha..us din usne ilzam lgaya ki wo mera bf hai..yeh baat usne hi bataya lkin ab tak wo maana nhi ki usne btaya…ab meri diwali ki holidays chal rhi hai aur mai apne dadi k ghar aai hu..mujbe aakr do hafte ho gae ab tak wo mujhe ek baar bhi nhi dikha…aur pta nhi q mujhe aisa lg rha hai ki wo mujhe ignore krta hai kabhi kabhi..jab bhi mai usse iss baare mei puchti hu wo bahana bna deta hai ki mai bzy tha ya fir online nhi tha…lkin usko online dekhkr hi mai mssg krti thi wo bolta hai ki mobile ki prblm hai….pta hai frndsss mai har raat roti hu..roz usse baat hoti hai lkin pta nhi q ab uspr wo trust nhi raha jo pehle thaa…
lkin haa mera pyaar ab bhi badta hai roz aur hmesha badhta rhega wo shayad kabhi samj bhi naa paae ki mai usse kitna pyaar krti hu…lkin frndss ab mai confuse ho rahi hu kya sach hai aur kya galat..mai kisi ke bhi baato pr ykin nhi kr paa rhi hu..aur to aur mai apne terminal exams mei bhi fail ho ap log hi socho jo ladki ko ssc mei 83 percent mile use fail homr kaisa lgega…mai puri tarah se tut chuki hu aur yha koi nhi hai mujhe samjne wala yha tak altamash bhi nhi jise mai apne aap se bhi zada pyaar krti hu…frndss plzz ap log hi mujhe btao ki kya altamash ka pyaar sacha hai???aur yeb bhi btao ki ab mujhe kya krna chahiye..bcoz ab mujhe btane wale koi nhi aur agar aisa hi chalta raha to mai bht jld suicide kr lungi…mai yeh sab seh skti hu agr mujhe wo samje jiske liye mai yeh sab kr rhi hu lkin jan mujhe wohi nhi samjta to dusre kya samjhege..plzzz frnddsss help me
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I think ke wo apka use kar eaha hai sare ladke(boys) ek jaise hote hai bas unhe dhoka dene ke siwa kuch aata hi nhi bas har ladki(girls) ke vishwas k sat khelna aata hai or ham log bhi pagal hai un pai vishwas kar lete hai or har problem ka solution suicide nhi hota maire yai salah hai ke apko usse chod dena chaheye or apne life mai aage bad na chaheye
Sare ladke 1 jaise nahi hote …ap kisi PARTICULAR ladke ki vajah se ..sare ladko ko BLAME krna sahi nahi h..
Apki family wale kuch or kahe rahe Hain….or Aap kuch or……
Bhalai isi me hai ki jo aapka dil kahe wahi Kro.. ..
Kyoki aapko hi apni life jini hai….na ki aapke family walo ko.. ..ok
Ek kaam jrur krna kabhi maa baap ka dil mat dukhana kyoki yahi pahele pyar hote Hain……inke pyar ke samne duniya Bhi chhoti par jati hai…isliye aapne maa-Papa kA bhi khayal rakh kar koi naya kadam uthana…… okkkk…… suicide to wo log krte hain jinko jindgi ne thukra diya ho…….abhi to bhut samay hai aapke pass….soch-samajh kar koi bhi decision len.a……
Good night!
jab apki family wale apki dadi yeh keh rahi hai ki woh accha ladka nahi.kuch soch ke hi keh rahe honge.apse jyada voh use jante hai.woh apko ignore bhi krra hai.uske bartav se pehchano ki kaisa h voh.yeh koi solution nhi h suicide karna.aap use bhul jaiye.kyuki Jo hame samajh nahi sakta voh pyar nhi kar sakta.soo tc
Exactly..agreed wth u.@
dear family me jb Sbko Pta chalta h tb sb kese bhi krke aisi prbs se picha chahate h fir unko Jhut he kyu na bolna pde. Aapko apne pyar ko tym dena chaiye Agr aapka apne pyar Pe trust beathta h tbi aage bdhna otherwise ni.
Shi kha Trust is vry imp in love..bt dnt trust blindly…actually parents bhi shi hote h many times
Apni dil ki suno ki wo kya chahta h jisme apko khusi mile pr suiside kabhi mt krna ho sakta h life me isse better ho insab chijo se nilalkr apni life me concentrate kro and be happy
Well said…suicide is not the solution of ny problem…r fir zindagi jeene ka naam h…:)
Ye sach hai ki family valo k aisi baate pata chalti hai to wo.picha 6udate hai lekin agr wo acha hota to family vale juth nhi bolte aur agr ye sab juth hota to wo apko ignore nhi krta & plzz ye suicide jaisi galti mat karna bcoz isse apke mom dad bohot hurt hoge & mom dad love se jyada important hai unse jyada love koi nhi kr sakta wo apke liye jo b karege acha hi karege
Exactly….Waise v family to acha hi krti h…
…Waise v family to acha hi krti h…
yeh bhi sahi kaha apne khushi.ap sath na ho islye apki family wale uske bare jhoot bolre ho.apko agar lgta h voh sahi hai and sach bolra hai toh ap uska sath dijiye.agar trust hora h uski baton se apko Jo feel hora h voh kare.
Comment…use bhul jane se tumhe bahut sakunn milega
Is duniya me sabse asan kaam h SUICIDE KRNA…kisi ko thoda Sa v problem hota h to wo aisa sochta h… main Aisha apko personally nhi bol rha …but yahi true h AISHA jitna aap usldke k liye serious h wo nhi h Qki aisa uske sath pehlibar nahi ho rha h…may be apke sath 1st time ho….aur jaha tak family ka pressure h wo to sab k sath hota h..isme koi nayi bat nahi h…APKE pas bs 1 hi option h.. AAP N HI USE BHULNE KI KOSHISH KARE & NA HI YAAD KRNE KI Qki..dono me apko khud PROBLEM hoga …JO JAISE H USKO AS USUAL RHNE DIJIYE …ab ..ap SSC CGL ka achchhe se preparation kijiye aur achchha RANK ACHIEVE kijiye…..beside it you’ve no option at all.
sbse pehli baat life me pyar kro lekin uske upar had se jada dependent mat raho agar mera bf hoga toh mai khaungi aachi dikhungi aache se padhungi like that .apni khusi dhundna sikho apne me khus rehna sikho ur apni lyf styl ek tm hi ho joh chng kr skti hu ur koi ladka ho ya na ho koi fark nhi padhta humesa apne me khus rehna aana chaiye aache se padho likho aacha dikho ur lyf me self dependent hona sikho ur agar pyar krti ho na toh bharosa krna aana chaiye pyar yeh nhi hota dusro ki char bate sunke tantana k apna agrressive nature ghusa dikhane lag jao koi bhi situation ko pyar se ekdum calmly handle krna sikho q ki ladke aise hote h agar ek bar unke ego ko koi hurt krde phir woh kisi ki nhi sunte jaise ki tmne kiya.
Kya baat h suraj nice comment yaar… Sahi kaha aapne
Sahi to tab hoga n …jab koi ise achchhe se samjh k ..apne life k bare me soche ki…sab ko sabkuch nhi milta h is duniya me …agar sab ko sabkuch mil hi jaye to life jeene ki EXCITEMENT hi khatam ho jati h
Lgta h bhai tum bhi meri tharah khtarnak thokar khachuke ho. Baat toh sahi ki aapne sukh dukh toh humare saath hi hain….aao yakin nhi karskte humare gharme jo problem chalrahe hain shyad agr koi sunegana tih pehle toh ynkin na krnpe utrega ktunke itna danger manzar chalraha h humare ghrme…ek misal deta kabhi bhi kahi bhi humare famly me jaan jasak ti h .
Hr wqt dar dar . Wih bolnahi sakta main……or aisa nhi h ke koi taqlif yah bimar ho sabh log mst me hain jawan or durust pr .himmat h sabko ke god sath h or dat ke rehna h. Itna honeke bad bhi main chatting krrah hun.
Ap jo samjho …bas itna jan lo agar koi kuch bol rha h..to ..sahi h ki..uske sath koi n koi INCIDENT hua h ..tavi to uske man me waisa bat ayi h…koi apne man se thode n itne perfection k sath bol skta h
yah sahi kaha apne suraj
Ya…its absolutely true
A/C to me….ye sahi h…but ye sahi h ya galat ye to samne wale k upar depend krta h n ..ki..wo is chij ko kis POINT OF VIEW se soch rha h
U r ryt suraj
Impressive
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Reply to krna chahiye ….n
Sabse pahle to ye marne ka khayal apne dimag se nikal de aap. Marna koi solution nahi hota hai isse aap to jaan se jayengi hi vo log jinhone apne hisse ka khila k aapko bada kiya hai unki zindagi bhi barbaad ho jayegi. Ek to apne bachhe ko khone ka dukh dusra society k taane ki na jaane kya kiya tha jo marna pada. Ab rahi dusri baat aisha aapne jo apne percentange k baare me bataya usse saaf pata chalta hai ki aap kitni intelligent hai jo scene aapke aas paas chal raha hai use aapse behtar aur koi nahi samjhega apna dimag chalayiye aur pata lagayiye ki kya sach hai aur kya jhuth. Aur agar baat meri rai ki hai to vo ladka jhuth bol raha hai kyuki aapke gharwalo ne jo kaha use jhuth sabit karne ka uske paas koi tareeka nahi hai jabki sacg sabit kai baato se hota hai ek to vo dil tutne k turant baad aapse flirt karte hai aur dusra aapke bhaiyo ko aapke khilaf bhadka kar us baat ko accept nahi karte. Aage aap khud samjhdaar hai take care
sahi bat suraj
I’m sorry not bad any boy Mai bhi love karta hu ek ladki se uske alawa aur kisi se bat bhi nhi karta hu jaise aapki condition h same mari bhi h Kisi bhi trike se apna dhyan hatane ki kisi Kare apne aapko bzy karo taki aap ka man waha tak na jaye apni soch badlo Marne se kuchh nhi milega padai karo aur use dikha do ki Mai tumse love karti thi Mai bhi aap ki tarah student hu Allahabad me Bank ki prep Kar rha hu bt koi bhi exam nhi qualifi Kar page h
Oh god! 7 sal o relationshp me the kisi aur k 7 n brk up hone k 3mnths bad apse chtng flirting strt kia n propose b kia…. Wow! N apke gharwalo ne kaha ki he has al bad habits lyk drugs n cl grls etc agr aisa h tho ap unke 7 hardly 5mnths rltnshp me the tho apko pta ni chla unki behaviour dekh k? Kbi notice ni kia? Wel fmly wale pi6a chudane k lye aisa keh rh honge, o sach b ho skta h but apke lvr tho sara blame ap p dalre h, jst think about it….. Unpe trust krke kal fmly ko chordia tho he may leave u all alone aisa hi lg rha h unki behaviour se…… Ab tho o apko ignore b kr rhe h so better go wid fmly…. “Bhul jao unhe” ye kehna bht simple h bt i knw apne pyar ko bhulna aasaan ni h n piyali ji ne sahi kaha suicide k brme so6na b mt suicide krke ku6 hasil tho ni kr skte na hm…. Abi apki age bht km h u r stil a kid, study, enjoy wid frnz, dnt get into such stupid tensions dear Aisha sis…:-)
Jenny mujhe apki woh blame waali baat bilkul satik lagi… Jab mere family ko pata chala tha mere relationship ke baare mei toh kai blames maine apne upar liye the taki jis ladke se mai pyar karti hu usko koi galat na samjhe aur yeh kaisa insan h? Jo aisha apke baare mein aisi baate kah raha jo apne ki bhi nahi h? Mujhe yeh ladka thik nahi lag raha aisha ji. Agar aisa h to better h aap move on karo… Suicidal feeling lakar Aise ladke par waste mat karo kyuki agar yeh insan sach mein thik nahi h to iske saath jeena jeete hue bhi apne aap ko marne jaisa h. Balki usko ache se jhaad lagao aur aur ache se sunao ki kabhi dubara aisa karne ki himmat na kare apke saath aur rafa dafa karo usko apni zindagi se aur mudkar mat dekhna uski oor dubara.
Han u r ryt itz betr 2 move on dan to trust dat type of person????????????
Emaindi niku ipudu nv enduku matladatledu ninnu kuda nenu emaina annana.
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Ani unte sorry okay nito kuda nenu vadinchalenu
I know bat buri lgege bt sb right kh rhe h…apki family apse jhut ku khege..meri ek friend thi same to same aese hua tha bs glti uski yh thi k usne use propose kiya tha aur phone m bat kr li thi aur us boy n uski voice record kr li thi…aur woh boy bht khrb tha usne meri friend k number wrong place p send kr diya tha…hm.yh ni.khte k pyr n kro are krokro bt soch smjh kr kro khte h love world beautiful thing hoti h bt kuch log use time pass krke chod dete alisha appi bs itna khugi unhe bhulna thoda difficult hoga bt apke family jhut to khege ni nn ap plzzz unhe kh do sb over ho gya…
I thik itne comments k baad apko shi glat ka pta chl gya hoga aisha….everybody says tht he is nt ryt guy 4 u…n u r a genius girl hv bright futur so its goog to move on…bhul jao Use r ha plzzzz ye suicide wali baat to nikal hi dena mind se…bcz suicide kisi prblm ka solution ni hota…r pta h usse khi jyada achha ldka deserve krte ho app..@
yr maira khna jo maa papa khai wo kro bec her time aap k sth wo dai g maa papa’
Nonsens waali baat sucid n @ al…dnt do dat shit evr….!!keep calmly nd thnk it nd yu vl find yua answr by yua self….
My suggestion z Ask him directly wat yu thnkng nd wat yu get opinion of him by othrz ….!aftr his rply yu vl get a answer…..!
Nice yar lekin ab aap mujhe Lgta hai Ki ab aap apne papa mummy Ki hi bat mane or hoske to aap ab padhai par dhyan de or rahi bat aap ko kuchh karne ko to aap kuchh Bhi flat n Karen jays Ki aap ne apni stori me btaya tha ko ………best or lock aap ko age Ki life ke liye
Wo ladka axha ni h aap use bhul jao ur apni life ko success ka mukam dejiye .wo ladka fake h ,agr fake na hota to wo sara iljam apne upr leta na ki aap pr iljam lga deta,