hi frnd mene apni story phle b is site me post ki h love of my life M.D. k naam se ye meri real life story hmeri phle ki story k age ka part bol skte h bt fir b sort me phle ka b likh deti hu
me apni study k lie ghar se bahar ayi thi tb meri frndsip mere love se hui or ek din 21st april 2015 ko unhone mujhe clg me btaya k unhe kisi ladki se love h or me unki help kru us time mere mn me love jesi koi feeling nhi thi to mene unse ldki ki detail puchi to unhone sb kuch galat bta dia mene bola kthik h bt phle prpose to kro unhone bola k dr h khi na kr dia to mene bola to dusri mil jayagi us se b achhi, M.D.(my love name) us se achhi b milegi or us jesi b bt mujhe wahi chahiye, me – phle prpose to kro wrna use kese pta chalega k tm use like krte ho thn wo apne rum gye or me apne sam ko unka call aya or mene pucha k kr dia prpose, m.d.- nhi bolne wala hu, me- best of luck, he- i love u mene tb na bola bt bad me ha bol dia or hmne bht hi yadgar pl bitaye ek duje k sath or kbhi ruthna mnana nhi hua dono ek dusre se discuss kr k hr kam krte or ek time aya jb mere relation me pta chal gya k mera love h kisi k sath to unhone muje bola ya family ya love mene family ko chuna us din rat me mene unsko call nhi kia tb unhone call kia or mene unhe bola k me apse ab bat nhi kruhgi qki apki family or meri family intercast nhi accept kregi to us din wo subah hi milne k lie nikle gye or mene unse bol diya ab hm nhi milenge wo din muje lga k sayad meri jandgi ka sbse manhus din tha pr mene bad me socha k muje kisi klie to family chhodni hi h q na apne love k bare ma papa ko bta du ye soch kr mene 2 week k bad unse bat krna suru kr dia uske bad jb hm mile to unhone mere ko ek manglsutra b pahnaya tb se hm dur jrur the bt apne sare rule follow krte bt apni limit kbhi unhone or mene cross nhi ki,pr dharmik niyam sare follow hote the jese wife k brat krna or b kai chij jese rakhi ki sari shoping unki trf se,
hm reletion me ane k bad bht hi km mile qki jb hm commited hue to unhone padhai chhod di or apne bussines me lg gye taki jb mere lie wo mere ghar aye to koi ye na bole k ldka kuch krta nhi h,2015 dec. me mene unke b’day k lie kafi shoping ki thi bt mere exam ki wjh se hm mil nhi paye the to mene sare jan. last me die hm bht khus the ek dusre se pr sayad hmari khusi jyada din ki nhi thi jb hmne sadi nhi ki thi to sirf unhe khone ka dr tha pr ab dr khatm ho chuka tha lekin abhi hmne apni family ko hmare bare me kuch nhi btaya tha MD mujh se 5 yrs bde the or apne ghar k iklote bete to unke ghar me unki sadi ki bat chalne lgi MD ne mna kia qki mere ghar me sadi ko lekr koi b bat nhi ho rhi thi, MD k ghar me jyada force hone k wjh se unhone mere bare me ghar me bta dia fir ghar walo ne imotional blackmail kia MD ne ghar me hmari sadi nhi btai thi or wo bht paresan ho gye to bimar ho gye tb mene unhe samjhaya jb mere samne family or feeling(love) me choice thi to mene family ko chuna tha wo bol rhe the k bhag chalte h
bt unke ma papa k wo iklote bete the is wjh se hmne ye decide kia k unke mn ki ladki de MD sadi krenge lekin MD ki sadi tk esi halat ho gyi thi k wo sadi se 4 din phle ghar me sab se ldai kr lie or mujhe call kia mene us din MD ka number blacklist kia tha taki me khud pr control kr saku hme ek dusre se bat kie bina nind nhi ati thi pr pichle kuch din se control kr krna sikh rhe the jis din hm bat krte us din me callrecord kr leti thi qki mq janti thi muje unki awaj sune bina nind nhi ayegi us din mene rat me 2bje fon dekha MD ka msg tha k wo bht presan h to mene turant call back kia tb pta chla MD sadi klie mna kr rhe the to unhe smjhaya k ab ye do family ijjat ka swal h or hm ese hi bat krte rhe dusre din muje hgar jana tha qki hmare ghar me navratr k jware the or jware k agle din MD ki sadi mene MD ki hone wali ptni k lie manglsutr lia tha qki wo ho ek chij thi jo me use de skti thi sath hi mene navratr ka fast b kia tha janti thi k sadi ab hogi hi sath god pr viswas b tha k wo hmari jodi nhi bikhrne denge jb me MD ka praposal accept krne wali thi tb mene god se bola tha k agr hm dono ka sath jandgi bhar ka h to hi hme karib ane dena wrna hme dur kr do tb hmare pas ane ki wjh me god ko manti hu islie mene fast kia tha k sayad ye sadi na ho pr MD ki sadi k 1 din phle MD ki didi ka 2bje rat me call aya or unhone bola k tm kl a rhi ho na mene bola ha qki agr us din agr me MD k ghar nhi jaungi to sayad me jinda nhi rh pati islie me sadi wale din apne ghar se 7bje subah nikle gyi or MD k ghar sam ko 4:30 pr pahunchi or unke ghar me ma papa ko chhodkr MD ki teeno didi ko pta tha k me kon hu sbhi ne mujhe bht pyar dia MD ki ma ko nhi pta tha pr unhone b mujhe bht pyar dia or mujhe lga k sayad mene apni life kuch achha nhi kia is wjh se mere naseeb me ye family nhi mene MD ko taiyar krte samay pucha k me b barat me chalu to unhane mna kr diya jb barat chali gyi to unki didi ne hmari pic dekhi or bola k agr ma papa man jate to hme koi prblm nhi thi
pr me abhi apne bare me soch kha rhi thi me to ye soch rhi thi k wo ldki ka kya hoga jidka pati kisi or se pyar kr rha h jb rat me kuch log barat se wapas aye to mene sbse phle sadi ki pic dekhi or apne mobile me b le li, subah jb barat wapas ayi to me or didi sbse phle milne gye, than grah pravesh ka kalash b mene hi rkha tha qki me b to us ghar ki kuch thi ya ye khe k mene use apne ghar me ane dia or mene us din pure time MD ki patni se bat ki mujhe pta chal gya k wo achhi b h or samajhdar bhi MD uske sath khud ko sambhal lenge fir ayi unki wedding night ki bari to mene MD ko apna laya hua manglsutra dia jo wo use wedding night pr gift dia phle to wo rum me nhi ja rhe the pr fir unhe bheja gya or wo mujhe dekh rhe the mene unhe ke smile di jo ki unke lie himmat thi kitna ajib seen tha apno k lie apni zindgi ko kisi or k hath me de rhi thi or ankhon me ek b ansu nhi qki MD samne MD the unke bare me sochkr unhe dekhkr unki awaz sunkr hi sari muskil ese handle ho jati thi jese koi muskil hi nhi h jb MD ki sadi ki bat chal rhi thi meri frnd mujhse bol rhi thi k tu pagal ho gyi h apni barbadi ankhon se dekhne ja rhi h pr mujhe to ye pta hi nhi tha k me kya kr rhi hu me bs itna janti hu k us samay MD ko meri jarurat thi or mr us time apne bare me sochti to MD ko kon dekhta pr jb dusre din me wha se nikli to raste me mere ansu apne ap nikl rhe the jbki me ro b nhi rhi thi bs ye soch rhi thi jese god ne mera bharosa toda h wesa kisi k sath na ho or ab MD us ldki ko khus rakhe or pyar de, mene bola tha MD se k jb meri yad aye to apni patni ko gle lga lenaor ankhein band kr k soch lena k me hu,
or jb me apne rum pahuchi to mere ankhon se barst suru ho gyiye soch kr k ab MD apni bat kise btayenge qki wo apni batain jb me bht force krti thi tb mujhe btate the or us ldki ka kya jise apne pati se sb milega hr khusi milegi pr dil me jagah nhi sb meri wjh se or wha MD mere bare me soch kr bimar ho gye k me akeli kese rahungi unhe kya pta k mene sare arrengment kr lie the unki awaz record kr k jb recording sunti thi tb lgta tha k hm sath h pr MD ne sadi k kuch din bad hi apni wife ko mere bare me bta dia qki sadi se jane k bad mene MD se bat bnd kr di thi ye soch kr k me kisi ldki k sath glt nhi kr skti tb unhone mujse bat krne k lie mere bare me apni wife se mere bare me bta dia or unki wife ne unka sath dia ab kbhi bat krna hota to unki wife k samne bt me unki life se dur jana chahti bt unki puri khabar b lena chahti hu dur islie taki unka rista bn sake or khabar isliye k janna chahti hu sb thik to h wha…..
bs ek hi gila h k agr MD mere life partner nhi the to wo meri life me q aye or agr aye to mere hote hue b q mujhe unhe khona pda mujhe koi suggestion dijiye jisse k me unki life se dur ho jau qki kbhi kbhi bat krne pr b attechment km nhi hota or me unki life me kisi b type ki problem nhi create krna chahti unki wife pr kya gujrti hogi jb wo te sochti hogi k mere pati kisi or se pyar krte h me us ladki k sath galat nhi krna chahti……
i love him forever or i m there happy bcoz he promiss himself never hurt me & me unka koi b promiss nhi tutne de skti…..
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Mujhe love ke bare me jyada pata nhi…. Bs itna janta Hu.. Ki kuch kahaniya adhuri v rah jati h… Jaruri nhi Ki hm khuda se Jo mange wo mil hi jaye… Kuch luck ka khel hota h kuch apna v…. . Piche aapke sath aapki yaadein bni jiske sath aap jindagi bhr us time ko miss karoge… Pr aane wali zindagi kharab na karna… Baaki all the best ????… Enjoy your life.
Right!!girl kaise maangyi I don’t know but still daat deni hogi dil pr pthr rkhkr apna pyaar kisiko de diya nd suggest ni kr skti dur Jane ka…..
Mujhe kuchh baate is story mein samajh nahi aai Shivani ji, aapne kaha ki M.D. ne aapke baare mein Ghar mein bataya par unhone kisey bataya? kyuki aap kah rahe ho ki Mom dad ko toh pata hi nahi tha ki aap woh ladki ho? bas M.D. ki baheno ko pata tha?
Dusri baat ki unhone koshish kyu nahi ki ki ek baar woh aapki family se baat karke dekhe bajaaye unhone sirf isliye aapki family se baat nahi ki kyuki unhone apki shaadi ki baat chalani shuru nahi ki thi? aur isliye unhone aapka haath maangne ki koshish hi nahi ki? Bajaye iske bhaagne ki baat kahi?
Galat chiz karne ke liye woh taiyar the par sahi chiz karne ki himmat nahi thi?
Mujhe yeh story parhkar yahi feel hua ki, unki taraf se, effort pura nahi tha…
Jo chala gaya so chala gaya, aap bhul jaao usey, Shaadi ek social bandhan hai. Toh is fact ke hisaab se aap dono ki shaadi bhi nahi hui hai… kyuki is baare mein society ko nahi pata hai…
Shaadi karne ke liye sirf mangalsutra hi nahi, fere, mantra, social gathering aur kai riti riwaaz ki zarurat hoti hai… Toh aap guilty mat feel karo agar aapko yeh chiz roke hue hai toh…
Baaki chiz ki woh aapke zindagi mein kyu aaya jab usey aapka hona hi nahi tha? Mujhe nahi pata mai sahi hu ya nahi par mere expereince se kuchh log hamaare liye nahi bane hote, par woh hamari zindagi mein isliye aate hain taaki hamey kuchh sikhaa sake, hame strong bana sake, hamara jo aane waala kal hai, usme kuchh aisa honey waala hai jo bilkul isi se milta julta hai, par is incident se strong hai… aur agar hamaare saath yeh sab nahi hua hota toh shayad hum aane waale kal ko nahi sambhaal paayenge.
Move on karo, apna khayal rakho, career par dhyaan do, parents ko dhyan do, pyar vyar waali chize bekaar hain. Kisi friend ne mujhe kaha tha ki sahi insaan se shaadi ho jaaye toh sab bhul jaate hai log, yeh pyar vyar kuchh yaad nahi rahta kyuki zimmedariyan barh jaati hain… Aapko bhi nahi rahega yeh sab yaad jab aap kisi aise insaan se miloge jisey aap deserve karte ho. Bahut mil jaayege woh bhi M.D. se better. Time lagega, par believe me shivani ji sab thik ho jayega.
me ye janti hu k agr me unhe nhi rokti to wo apni life khrab kr lete islie mene unhe us time kuch b nhi krne diya or unke ma papa ko ye pta tha k unka love koi h bt ye nhi pta tha k wo ldki me hi hu
shivani ji… mai bas itna kahungi ki Kai baar situations aisi create ho jaate hai ki na chahte hue bhi hame kuchh decision lene padte hain…
Toh in sab chizon ke baare mein itna mat socho kyuki yeh hurt hi karengi, aur Apna khayaal rakho sis… aap ek strong insaan ho. Aur apko khud bhi pata hai ki family zyada important hoti hai, toh mujhe ya kisi aur ko zarurat nahi hai yeh bataane ki aapko kya karne ki zarurat hai. apne aap ko thoda time do emotionally aur mentally heal hone ka… aap abhi Present situation mein bahut confused aur tute hue feel kar rahe hoge, Isliye mai aapko aapke future ke liye wish karungi ki woh bright aur khushiyon bhara ho… *Hugs*
Excuse me miss rupali… Aapko pyar nhi Hua to … Pyar bekar h… Duniya Ki best filling hoti h love.. Or hm jise pyar karte h use bhulna.. Itna aasan nhi hota h… Hmmm mana Ki sabko pyar nhi milta iska matlab ye nhi Ki hmmm love ko blame kare.. I hope aapko meri baat buri na lage…
Well aapko mera comment samajh nahi aaya.
Bilkul samjh aaya
Hyyyy
Aaman apne thik hi kha
Pyaar ko bhulana itna asan nhi h
Jitna ki
Rupali ne kha
Payaar ek ehshas h jo kbhi nhi bhulaya ja sakta h
Well mai jaanti hu ki pyar ko bhulana aasaan nahi hota… Aur mai bhi kisi se pyar karti thi ya shayad ab bhi karti hu mujhe nahi pata…. It has been 5 years
Maine aman ji ko aisa kaha ki unhe mera comment samajh nahi aaya…. kyuki mai shivaani ji ko encourage kar rahi thi move on karne ke liye. Aur waise bhi pyar tabhi tak valuable hai jab usme 2 log hain… 1 ke chale jaane ke baad woh hurt hi karta h… Isliye jo chiz hurt kare woh bekar h usey apni zindagi se nikal dena hi behtar h.
Ohhh I am realy sorry…. Because pyar sabko hota h .. Pr jb break up Ho jata h .. To hmara trust toot jata h pyar se… Iska matlab hmm use blame na kare
Well I agree with you in this…
Kisi baat pr agree to hui..
I agreed with you because I understood your logic and what you were trying to say. Toh fir apka yeh taunt “Kisi baat par toh agree hui” I am sorry mujhe samajh nahi aaya.
Mujhe lga tha Ki … Jb logo KO love me dhokha milta h .. To unhe love se itni nafrat Ho jati h Ki… WO dusro ko v confuse Kr dete h… Pr meri soch kuch alag h… Khuda sabko dil deta h … Sabko 24 hours deta h Kisi KO na km na jyada… Mere kahne ka matlab ye h Ki… Dhokha Milne ke baad hmari life bahut change Ho jati h….hm piche Ki life ke wajah se apna present and future gharab karte h… Bs itna hi kahna tha… Baki aap meri baton ko sahi nhi le rahi thi usi wajah se Maine kaha Kisi baat pr to agree hui
Exactly Aman ji and I am sorry last comment mein I misunderstood you… Actually jo baat aapne mujhe pahle kahi unhe mai samajh rahi thi , aur apko galat way mein nahi le rahi thi… par aapne kaha tha ki mai blame laga rahi hu pyar ko, aur isi baat ke liye maine kaha tha ki aapne shayad meri baat ko galat samajh liya.
Actually mai blame nahi laga rahi thi, mera matlab “Pyar waali feeling” se nahi tha, us pyar se mera matlab un “relationships aur logon” se tha jo hamari zindagi mein nahi rah paate, kai baar manjburion se toh kai baar kisi se dhokha milne ki wajah se.
jab maine kaha tha pyar vyar bekar hai, mera kahne ka matlab usi relations aur logog se tha ki, jo chala gaya so chala gaya, uske liye hame apna present and future barbad nahi karna chahiye… bilkul waisa jaisa ki aapne kaha hai apne last comment mein…
Aur aapke last comments se mai fully agree karti hu.
Ohhh thanku… But mera ek Q h .. I hope aap uska answer dengi… Jb kuch relationship tut ti h to wajah majburiya … Btai jati h… Lagbhag 80% relation me… Kya Mai jaan sakta Hu Ki aisi kon Si mjburi h Jo relation ko khatam kar deti h.. Kun hm un majburiyo se bhag jaye h… Use face kun nhi karte h.. Kya insan iske aage kun kmjor pd jata h… Bahuto ko unka pyar nhi mil pata h… Is majburi word se bahut nafrat h…
Yahi caste, religion, family pressure etc etc.
And this story is an example of the caste problem and family pressure….
Aap dekh sakte ho ki families kabhi nahi maanti agar ladke aur ladki unke man mutabik caste, religion ya aisi kisi milti julti chiz ki nahi hoti… Aur zyadatar log family ke decisions ke aage majboor hokar give up kar dete h.
Pr iska koi solution to hoga….. To fir agar ye hme pahle hi pata hota h… Ki ye cost family rukawat banegi to fir love hi kun hota h…. Mai bahut confuse rahta Hu… Jb Kisi KO apne samne tut te hue dekhta Hu… I know Ki family ke against Jana acha nhi h… Pr kya love karke use sirf isliye chord do Ki hmara samaj iski izzazat nhi deta… Isi wajah se family.. Mna karti h na… Kya hmari family samaj ke taur tarike se kun chalegi . Koi bhukha sota h to smaj nhi aata Ki chalo tumhe hmm khana khilayenge… Kon Si samaj Ki parwah karte h… Us samaj Ki jb ek ladki agar apne pasand ke kapde pahne to pahle use hi ghurte h… Fir baad me ye kahte h Ki ladki Charector less h.. Kya ek ladki KO apni zidagi jeene ka haq nhi h… Use apne pasand ke ladke se pyar karke ka haq nhi h… WO uske sath kaise rah sakti jise wo janti nhi… WO uske sath apni Puri zindagi kaise gujaregi.. WO ladka kaisa sharabi h.. Ladkya use Karta h… I know aap samjh rahe hoge… Mujhe ase samaj ka fark nhi padta Jo Kisi Ki khusiyo me rukawat bnta h..
Aman ji… mai parso se aapke last comment ka reply karne ki soch rahi thi, concept toh mere dimag mein tha par words nahi mil paa rahe the… aur mujhe nahi pata ki mai aapko apna concept explain kar paungi ya nahi…
Hamari society aisi kyu hai mere hisab se iski wajah hai log jis chiz se anjaan hote hai, usse dur rahte hain, kyuki unhe yeh nahi pata ki woh buri hogi ya achchi, log kuchh naya karne se darte hain, isliye woh usi raaste par chalna pasand karte hai jisme sab chale aa rahe hain… aur isi tarah se cast system India mein hazaaron saal se chala aa raha hai. Jaise ki hamare parents hote hain, unka nature unka behavior, sochne ka dhang kaafi had tak unke bachcho mein bhi aa jaata hai… isey kahte hain khoon ka asar… bachcha chaahe apne parents ke saath na bhi raha ho toh fir bhi genes jo hai woh toh badal nahi sakte… Aur yeh scientifically proved hia, Isliye dekha gaya hai, ki jab hum criminals ki history check karte hain, toh unki family background mein koi na koi criminal mil hi jaata hai.
Usi tarah, kuchh logo ko “achche bano” ki shiksha nahi deni padti, unke andar naturally hi aise caring aur dusron ke baare mein sochne waale traits aa jaate hain… Hamare genes is tarah ke hote hain, zaruri nahi, ki woh hame apne mom dad se hi mile, hamare jo purwaj hain, unke bhi genes hamare andar aa jaate hain, toh ho sakta hai hum apne mom-dad ki bajaye, apne par dada ya par dadi par gaye hon. Isliye kaha jaata hai ki, woh ladka ya ladki khaandaani hai. Isliye hum physically similar hone ke saath saath apni family se mentally bhi similar hote hain.
Hamari society mein isi kaaran stereotypes ban gaye hain, woh us caste ka hai toh woh aisa hoga… woh us religion ka hai toh woh waisa hoga, ladkiyan aisi hoti hain, ladke aise hote hain.
Isliye log dusre ki qaulities ko na dekhkar aaj bhi India mein dusre insaan ke family ko dekhte hai. Jo mai kahungi 50% sahi toh galat bhi.
Ab iske peechhe bhi ek wajah hai, hum puri tarah se society ko blame nahi kar sakte unke is stereotype soch ke liye…
Kuchh mahine pahle delhi mein ek murder case hua tha jo news paper mein chhapa tha… Usme ek ladke ne apni g.f ka murder karke uski body ko apne bed ke neeche chhupa diya tha… case kuchh aisa tha ki, us ladki ko us ladke ke family ne reject kar diya tha shaadi karne ke liye aur woh ladki us ladke ko force karne mein lagi hui thi ki woh ladka apni family ko manaaye. Par pareshaan aakar us ladke ne usey hi maar daala, fir body dump karne ki jagah nahi mili toh apni family ki madad se usne apne bed ke neeche chhupa diya… aur apne parents ki pasand ki ladki se shaadi kar li.
Us newly wed bahu ko ghar mein badbu aati thi, usne sabse puchh toh unhone bahana banakar taal diya… ek din us ladki ne bed ke neeche apne husband ki ex gf ki dead body dekhli…
Usne chhupkar apne maaike phone kiya aur waha sabko is baare mein bata diya… aur uske family waale usko lene aa gaye saath mein, us ladke aur uski family ko police waalon ne pakad liya…
Ab dekhiye… Love marriage ke chakkar mein ek ladki ki jaan gayi… arrange marriage ke chakkar mein ek ladki ki ek murderer se shaadi ho gai.
Parents love marriage ko support nahi karte kyuki, parents jab apne bachche ke liye life partner arrange karte hain toh woh bahut dekh parakh kar, investigate karke apne bachche ke anusar uske layak insaan dhundhte hain…
Par parents bhi toh insaan hi hain? unse bhi kai baar galtiyan ho jaati hai. Aur woh apne bachche ke liye galat insaan chun lete hain…
Isliye kaha jaata hai ki… Pyar jo log bahut zyada lucky hote hai unhi ko milta hai…
Jo hamare parents ke zariye hua woh hamaare saath bhi toh yeh ho sakta tha, ki hum jisse pyar karte hai woh thik insaan na ho?
Kyuki love marriages jo fail hoti hain, unme bhi toh yahi hota hai? ki aap pyar mein andhe ho gaye, aapko saamne waale ki achchaiyan hi dikhai deti hain… aur saamne waala bhi apni achchaiyan dikhata hai, ek baar aap uske kaabu mein aa gaye, usse shaadi karli fir pata chale ki uski darjan bhar affairs chal rahe hain, woh aapke paise use kar raha hain ya rahi hai apne bf,gfs par… aap kya kar loge? Divorce is a best option
Par Shaadi koi guddi gudiya ka khel nahi hai ki jab mann chaahe kar li aur jab mann chaahe divorce karke chhod diya… Kamse kam India mein toh aisa nahi hai.
Parents hame in chizon se bachana chahte hain… Parents ke liye ham hamesha bachche rahenge jinhe samajh nahi hai apne bhale bure ki… Parents ko yahi lagta hai ki woh hamare liye sahi kar rahe hai kyuki unko apne bachche ki choice par confidence nahi hota. Isliye unke faisley sahi hote hai toh kai baar galat bhi ho jaate hain. Baaki kuchh log toh aise hote hain jo parents se baat tak nahi karte aur break up kar lete.
Yeh jo izzat hai sharm ki baate jab ki jaati hai, woh isi liye taaki log apna best de jo woh kar rahe hai usme, warna log aise besharam hai, unka bas chalta toh 50 shaadiyan karke kahte ki hame toh 50 baar pyar hua tha toh hamne shaadi karli sabse! Galat kaam karte aur unhe koi kuchh kahne waala nahi hota… Log galat kaam society ke darr se nahi karte kyuki log unko question karte hain… Isliye ek tarah se society hamare, morals and values ko bhi shape karti hai. Isliye inka hona bhi zaruri hai.
Par kai baar society bhi galat hoti hai, jaise aapne kaha ki ladkiya apni man marzi kare toh usko characterless kaha jaata hai… Society mujhse, apse, hamari family and friends, padosi, aur kai logo ko milakar banti hai… kai jagah india mein acceptable hai ladkiyan shorts pahenkar ghumti hai, par kai jagah toh kurte ke neechhe ke leggings ko bhi galat maana jaata hai, salwar pahno… ya saadi pahno, muh aanchal mein chhipakar ghumo.
Ek insaan bhukha mar raha hai, koi uski help nahi karta… for e.g. Gao mein ek kisan ne suicide kar liya sukhe ki wajah se, goverment unki madad ke liye paise aur khaana bhejti hai par corruption ki wajah se untak woh pahuch hi nahi paata… log baate banaate hain, goverment ki burai karte hain, corruption ko blame karte hain…
Dusri or shahar mein ek naukrani hai, jo apne bachcho ko khilaane ke liye, achchi education dene ke liye pure mahine mar mar kar kai saare gharon mein kaam karti hai, garmi ho, ya kapkapati sardi ho, ya fir uski tabiyat kharab ho… fir month ke end mein jab usko paise milte hai, toh uska sharabi husband uske paise sharaab mein uda deta hai… usey yeh tak chinta nahi hai ki, uske bachche aur biwi bhukhe so rahe hain… aap uski biwi ko paise dekar madad karne ki koshish karonge na woh fir uske paise churakar ya uske saath maar pit karke paise chhinkar… sharab mein udaayega. Aap divorce ki baat karoge… toh puraane khayaal ki kam parhi likhi ladkiyan hai unke liye apne husband ko chhod paana bahut hi difficult decision hain bilkul naa ke barabar, yahan tak ki parhi likhi, well educated, middle class ya rich family ki ladkiya bhi itna bada step lene se pahle hazaron baar bhi nahi laakhon baar sochti hain.
Aisi situation mein fir wahi samajh waali baat aa jaati hai. Ki jisme jitni samajh hai woh uske hisaab se hi sochega… Hum logo ko samjha sakte hain, ki yeh sahi hai ya galat hai… aur aisa kyu hain… baaki aapne apna kaam kar diya… ab samajhne waale par depend karta hai ki woh samajhta hai ya nahi aur woh kya action lega…
Jo chiz galat hai, uske liye nazariya badalne ki zarurat hai… Aap ek insaan ko sahi chiz karne ke liye force karoge jab tak, jab tak usko aapka darr hai woh aapke man mutabik karega… par jis din woh aapke haath se niklega toh galat kaam fir karna start kar dega… Isliye force karne ki bajaye aap uski maansikta ko badloge tabhi aap us insaan ko badal paaoge ek sahi decision maker mein. Baaki end mein yahi kahungi ki,
society mein achche log bhi hai, toh bure log bhi hai…. kai baar aisa bhi hota hai, ki situation aisi create ho jaati hai, ki achche log bure ban jaate hai, kyuki bure log achche banne ka naatak karte hai… aur kai log galat samajh liye jaate hai… isliye hameshaa yeh maan kar chaliye ki har sikke ke 2 pahlu hote hain… Har action ke reaction ke peechhe koi naa koi karan zarur hota hai.
Par yeh bhi sach hai ki agar hum agar har chiz ke baare mein sochenge toh pagal ho jaayenge isliye, Is society mein kai achchaiyan hai toh, bahut si buraiya bhi hai, aur aise extreme mein hai na… ki woh aapko khun ke aansu rulwa degi… Agar bhagwaan ne hame hi chuna hota saari problems thik karne ke liye, toh duniya mein shayada sirf 3-4 problems hoti… par yaha karoro log hain, unke 1000 tarah ki apni problems hain… toh chaahkar bhi hum har problem ka solution nahi nikal sakte… kyuki har insaan ki situation alag alag hoti hai.
Isliye jab koi situation aapke saamne aati hai toh aapko jo lagta hai sahi hai wahi karo, aapko jo lagta hai aapke loved ones ke liye aur baaki sab ke liye sahi hai wahi karo… aap confuse ho toh, dusron se baat karo jo apko samajhta hai aur aapko jispar trust hai… har kisi ki baat sunoge toh confused rahote… kyuki har kisi ke opinions alag hote hain… isliye apne dil ki aur un logo ki suno jinpar aapko yakin hai… Mera yahi manna hai ki aapke iraade nek hai to raaste bhi apne aap ban jaayenge. Rusult ho sakta hai aapke man mutabik naa ho hamesha… par hamesha apna best do us chiz mein jisko aapne shuru kiya hai.
Mai apne comment ko short karna chaah rahi thi, uff yeh fir itna bada ho gaya…
Mujhe laga tha aap mera comment bhul chuke Ho… But mujhe Khusi h Ki aap ne reply to kiya wo v best… Mujhe pura to smjh nhi aaya.. Pr aadhiktar smjh liya…. Nice pr thanks v …
You are welcome aman ji… actually maine kai baar apna comment likhkar mita diya kyuki aise hi bade bade paragraph ke comments bann rahe the… Kyuki Mere dimag mein kai saari baate chal rahi thi… society se kyuki hum sab jude hue hai, mai, aap hum sabki family, relatives friends aur hamare jasbaat bhi… toh yeh ek sensitive issue hai… aur fir koi chiz aadhi adhuri likho toh log usko galat way mein le lete hain… log hi nahi, shayad mai bhi kisi ki aadhi baat ko galat way may samajh sakti hu agar mai usko nahi jaanti hu toh… Isliye maine fir saari baat likhi aur mai aisa kyu sochti hu, iska karan bhi diya.
aaj shaanti se baithkar type kiya… socha short mein sab reply karungi… fir se itna bada comment bann gaya… Toh maine at last reply post kar hi diya… 😛 Late reply karne ke liye sorry… but also thanks for the understanding… 🙂
Mujhe aisa nhi kahna chahiye … Pr fir v Maine jaha tak dekha h mujhe Delhi me rahte 2 year Ho gye h.. .. Pr yaha ke ladke ladkiya apni zindagi me khush rahte h… Maine kayi dafa dekha h .. Metro me mall me .. Kuch jyada hi close rahte h… Sach kahu to aap positive lijiyega.. Mujhe kabhi nhi laga tha Ki Delhi Ki ladki ke mind me itna acha suggestion hoga… Kunki yaha ka behaviour dekh ke Maine dost hi na bnaya … Na Kisi se baat Karta Hu na jyada frndly rahta Hu… Kunki mujhe Kisi se sikayat nhi h.. Pr Kisi se ghulna milna acha nhi lagta … Ek bar dil tutne ke baad na chahe jotna koshish karo pr trust dobara nhi hota… Hmesa Dar sa hota h Ki kahi koi dusra v dhokha na de de… Isliye akele raho khush raho…
Waise aise log hai delhi mein Aman ji… Mai disagree nahi karungi… Actually yaha bhed chaal hi itna h… Logo mein samajh h nahi pyar kya hota h yeh tak nahi pata…feelings tak nahi h? Par bf ya gf chahiye zyadatar ko… Kyuki uske friend ke paas h to mere paas bhi honi chahiye… Aise logo se jitna durr raho, utna better h
Lekin yaha thik log bhi h mai isse bhi disagree nahi karungi…
Baaki aap yaha 2 saal se ho aur aap logo par trust nahi karte…. Mai toh yaha paida hui hu… mai khud yaha ke logo ko trust nahi karti. 😛
Wastav me aapki baatein 100% sahi h… Or Mai aapki feelings Ki Kadar Karta Hu… Yaha ke logo KO sirf isliye love karna h Ki uske frnd ke pass h to mere pass v hona chahiye…. Aise log pyar ka majak uda rahe h… Pr sach to ye h Ki insan ko ek dayre me hi rahna chahiye… Use pata hona chahiye Ki use kaha tak Simit rahna h….
So toh hai aman ji.
G thanku aap se baat karke acha laga … Ho sake to fir kbhi milenge …
I am glad to know you too, Aman ji. See you. 🙂
Rupali g … Aap mujhe ye bta Sakti h Ki bahut Si kahaniya adhuri kun rah jati h… .. Kya un logo ke pyar me sachai nhi hoti..jo apne anjam tak nhi pahuch pati…. Pata h jb Kisi ka pyar adhura rah jata h na to bahut dukh hota h…
Hyy
Rupali
U are right
Pyaar jb tak hi khusi deta h tb tak dono pyaar karte ho
Agar un dono m se ek chala jaye to
Pyaar hamesa hurt karta h
Aur hurt karne wali feelings ko hame dil se nikal dena chahiye
Yarr so sad mujhe apki story m Dard dikha yarr kya kar sakte h wo kehte h na ishq saccha wahi jisko milte nhi manziley meri Kahani bhi bilkul apke jaise h ap chaho to read kar sakti ho… Title is my first love by kuldeep thakur. Is story k 4 part h apko padh kar accha lagega Kyuki ap Jann jaogi ki sbko Dard milta h pyar m aur yeah to prakarti ka niyam h
Hello I would request app door Ho jao same hpnd with me but hm relation me the koi tradition Ni Hua tha like mngalsutra and all but I am very devotee Mai jisee pyar krti thi he is mrd now but aj b mujhe yd aati h kbhi kbhi rat bht Ni so pati tears as jate h bs reason fmly h or Mai god ko bht mnti Hu abi nvrtri h I m doing fasting bs ye chahti Hu meri fmly khud re or my love with his wife pyar ka mtlab srf pana Ni hota but Jo apne Kia Mai Ni Kr skti kbji u r like my sis becoz we r from same cast I m also kushwaha..tc yr
FRNDZZ thanx for your comment but muje ye jana h k me apni life ka kya kru ek ldki k lie sadi bhtbdi chij hoti h jo mene kr li h & after that i m not eith my husbnd so whst i have to do please give me solution
mene admin ko is story ka title kaash mere hote k naam se dia th bt unhone kuch or hi kr dia
shivani sach m aake stori bhut acche h bhut dukh bhare yr aap n bhut bdi kurbani de h sach m ek baar ko mere ansu a gye jisse hm dil s pyr krte h woh kisi or ka ho jae bhut dukh hota h yrrrr hm akele reh jate h yeh soch soch kr bhut rote h hmm but yr jo Insan kisi or ka ho jae hm phir bhe uske bare m sochte rehte h aisa kyo
kehte h waqt hr ghab bhr deta h lekin aisa nhi kyoki un ghabo ke sath waqt hmko jeena sekha deta h ,,,,,,,,shivani,,,,,,, g
apne shi kha
apko unse pyar tha hi nhi kyoki pyar to dil se hota h or ap ise dimag se kar rhi thi
apne ek side se sahi kiya n ek side se bht galat…MD ki wife bhi khush nai reh paigi bcoz MD tumse pyr krta hai vo usse chahe kitni bhi khushi de but jo MD ki wife ka hak hai usse shyd vo khushi or pyr na mile..or MD ki wife agar MD se shadi nai krti to usse bhi mil jaate bht..but isme 3 life barbad hue ..i think itd ur mistake…n agar aap MD ko bhulna chahte ho to khud bhi dusrio shadi krlo dats better for all of u 3…
Pyar k chakkkar me nhi padna re baba… merra yahi sugession h
ab to pd gye ab kya kre
Yes u are
Right
Pyaar me hamesa hurt hota
Is time m koi true love nhi karta h
Sirf time paas karte h
Aur jb iska ehsash hota h to
Ek na ek ka dil toot jata h
Aur uski sari khusya chhin leta h
Enfect pyaar is time m
Not posible
Single life
And
Happy life
Shivani….
.. I agree with rosbin….
Because jbtak AP shadi nhi karoge.. tabtak M.D apko.. or ap M.D KO EK minute k liye bhi bhul nhi paenge … or issse sabse zada M.D k wife ko dard hoga….
So better option is tht ap shadi kar loo or.. Then only…. u wil happy…
SAHI Kaha ..
apne pyar vyar sab dikhane k h …..
yeh sab jab tak samj mai ata h tab tak boht der ho jati h …
or
is tym mai pyr sbse bekar log sirf tym pass hi kartai h or kch nhi or usko pyr ka nam de datai h….
Swati…. sahi Kaha apne…
Sometime ham family k bjhese bhut kimti cheese khone pe mojbur hoo jaate hai… don’t wry dear.. God ne sahed apka Kushi or kisike sath bandke rakha… or so sakta hai wo apko bhut pyar kare …
So be happy and try to frgt yur past.. becz ap jitna past k baare me sachoge.
Utna kudh no ap taqlif dooge ….
Think positive….. kii sahed God apke liye usse zada pyar karne wala kisiko choose karke rakhe hoonge……. smile alwys… dear…
Vaibhav…..
U are wrong… pyar koi Bekar loog nhi karte..
I think sahed apne ajtak time pass karte aaye ho isliye aisa bl rehe ho????.
But jisne sacha pyar kiya hai srif ohi baatha sakta hai kii..
Pyar kiya hoota hai….
Or pyar srif pana nhi hoota hai…
Sacrifice bhi pyar hoota hai… jaise shivani ne sacrifice kiya hai na.. har koi aisa nhi kar sakta….
Becz sometime… ham pyar k bs hasil karne k baare me sachte rehete hai… or isbjhe Se pagalpan bhi start hoo jata hai.. like koi koi tho family k bhi chodne k liye ready hoo jaate hai… but…. aisa nhi karna chaiye… pyar me parents k support k bina agr koi koi loog shadi kar lete hai… tho parents ko bhut zada dard hoota hai… or God ye sb ekdin wafas karta hai…
So.. pyar Bekar cheese nhi hai.. KISIKO Kushi Dena bhi pyar hoota hai…
Supriya ji aapne vaibhav ji ka comment galat parh liya h… Woh kah rahe h time pass karne waale log bekaar hote h ????
Hiii
Nicesss sty
Pyar …. World Ki best filling hoti h…. Bahut khush naseeb hote h we log jinhe unka pyar mil jata h… Life me 2 chije insaan ko apne pasand Ki nhi milti love and naukri Aga jis insaan ko ye dono apne pasand Ki mil jati h na… Use zindagi se koi sikayat nhi rahti… Baaki sabko to Jo mil jata h uske sath bs zindagi gujarte h.. WO usme hi khusiya dhundhte h…
Hyyy
Supriya
U are right
So piyaar ek esa ehsash h jo sirf mehshus kiya ja sakta h
Aur pyaar pane ka name nhi
Ye jaroori nhi ki pyaar ko paya nhi to wo pyaar na ho
Enfect pyaar wo h jo hamesa dosre ki khusi ko dekh kr khud khus ho
Use pyaar kehte h
Jaisa ki
Shivani
Ne apne pyaar ko kisi aur ka kr diya lekin fir bhi khus h
Qki unko maloom h
Meri khushi unki khushi m hi h
Ye hota h
True love
Ap thk khe rahi h pyr ko meshus kiya ja skta h,jb kisi ko pyr hota h to kitni kushi meshus hoti h effect ye hai ki uske sth rhene se kitna acha lgta h mera pyr bhi waisa h jb main unhe dekhti hu to bht kushi milta h ar unki smile mjhe bht bht kushi deta h hmari kushi dusre k sth juda h ar unke jine ki wjh hum h main bus itna khena chahti hu ki pyr jo krta h unhe na kbhi jhut na dokha dena chaiye woh apke upar itna trust krte h ki apne family ko jhut khete h ye dono ko follow krna chaiye main jinse pyr krti hu kya pta h mere unse marriage ho payegi ki ni kyuki woh doctor h main nurse stff dono ek hospital pr job krte h ek religion k hai pr kya pta hum sth rhe skte h ki ni pr pyr jb hota h to life kitni change ho jati h main bht kush hu ki mjhe aise life partner mile……
Hyyyyyyy
Priya
U are right
Apne thik hi kha pyaar
Ko muhsoos kiya ja sakta h
So spko apna pyaar jaroor milega
So god bless u
Frnd
apki story dil ko choo gyi…allah aesa kisi k sath na kre… par ab dono alag ho to apko move on krna chahiye bcoz unke sath ab kisi aur ladki ki life judi hui h aur hmri wajah se unke relation me koi problem na ho jaye aur aap b apni life me khush rehna sikho aage badho….jo apke pas h wo hi apka present h
good luck
Hyy shivani
Sabse phele mai aapko hats off karna chahti hu
Aapne apne pyar (life)ko kisi or ko de diya
Ye karne ka himmat sab pe n hota dear really
Aapki story mujhe bahut achi lagi
Pata h mujhe gussa aata h God pe kvi kvi ki jab real lovers ko wo milate n h toh love q karwate h unko
Qki real love karne k baad agar wo aapse dur ho jaate h toh life hell ho jata h or aisa lagta h aab life khatam ho chuki h
Or move on karna bahut hi jyada mushkil hota h
Bolna easy h move on but karna too difficult yaar
Aapki behaviour bahut achi h or aap sab k baare sochti ho
Or apne life me aage jaane ka try kijye bahut mushkil h but impossible nhi dear
God bless u dear
Hyyh
Nishi u are right
Apne thik hi kha
Jab life m ek hona hi nhi likha hota h
To fir love hi q hota h
Enfect love bhi usi se hota jo kismat m
Kbi nhi mil sakta
So sad
Haa tanha
Aap kaha se belong krti ho
Hyyy
Nishi
I am boy ok
Form (u.p)
And
Apse puch sakta hoo ki ap kha se ho
And
Kaisi ho
Hyy tanha
Mai jharkhand se hu or bcom ki student hu or bilkul achi hu mai or cute v hu????
Maine stories to bahut padi sister bt kabhi apna sughao nahi diya bt aj apko de raha hu pyar bhale hi apko mila bt duniya me itni badi kurbani koi nahi deta salute u
YAR me move on krna chahti hu kese kru ap log muje ye btao plaese
best option for move on is……u just get marry wid other person…aap bhi khush rahoge n M.D bhi move on krega abhi wife ke sath..