my unique story,god PLZ give me tat way to happiness – avika

Hello frens I am avika… I Want to share my story with as i am unable to share with any1 and my heart is too heavy and crying.. my story starts after completion of 12th,jab mai kuch personal reasons ki wjah se apne home town me agai jha mai kbi nai rahi..but now my studies of graduation will be continued hear only..it was my first day of my class in new college and new city..I entered the class and said may i come in mam..and one boy started starring at me…he was in love with me at first site…but i didnt new it..vo first day mere sath tempo pe chadgya ghar jate time…usdin hmari koi bat nai hui thi..uski mjse bat krneki himat nai hori thi kyuki mai thoda conserve aur kisi ladkese bat nai krtithi aur new city me ake thoda sad feel kartithi..phir ekdin uske manme mera num leneka bhana aya…usne bat krna start kiya phle meri frend se aur use num liya aur tbi mera num mangne lga jbki meri use kbi bat nai hui…mane mna krdiya denese..usne kha kyu papa datenge,maine kha nai…phr tbse uski himat hogai mjse bt krneki…aur vo roj jbrdsti mere sath picha karke merehi tempo me baith jata tha..ek din colg k computer lab me hm log ko cv bnaneko kha sir ne…aur whi se usne mera num leliya chupkese aur mje pta hi nai chla..aur net se msg krne lga..tbi ek din colg me maine kha mje msg kaun bhejta hai..to uska dost uski tarf dekhke hasne lga…mane guseme uski tarf dekha aur chli gyi..aur meri hmesa ye kosis rehti thi ki mai jaldi se chuti time nikal jau..taki vo meri tempo me na baith sake..ek do bar aisa hua b..aur next day uska mu phula hotatha..mane usko hr trhase ignore krneki kosis ki..phr dhire dhire usne studies se related bat kni shuru ki..to mje lga ki vo thek h and intelligent h faltu bt nai krega to mai b bat krnelgi..nw uski bat dhire dhire msg se star hogai..maine use stricly mna kiya ki kbi phne mat krna aur faltu msg mat krna..to vo mangya par phr b vo roj kahi na khi se kamki pdhai ki bat puchneke bhane bat kr hi leta tha…phr ek sem beet gya..mje pta chlgya tha ki vo mjse lv krta h kyuki uske dost indirectly mjhe leke kuch na kch usse mjak krtethe..aur agar mai smj jatithi mjak to use bht tej dat ti thi..vo boltatha are dost h sab jante h,mje acha lgta h mjak..mai kehti mje aise mjak pasnd ni apne dost ko smjado wrna mai kbi bat nai karungi…aisehi ek semester beet gya..phr ek din usne mjhe indirectly propose krneka soch..usne kha”MAINE KAL EK SAPNA DEKHA JISME HUM DONO BIKE PE EK SATH JARE HAI LONG DRIVE PE AUR HALKI SI BARISH HORAHI THI,PHIR HAM EK RESTAURANT ME JATE HAI..COFEE ORDER KARTE HAI..MERE HATH ME EK ROSE HOTA HAI AUR MAI TUME DEKE KEHTA HU “I LUV U,DO U LOVE ME”,AUR MAI TUME DO OPTION DETA HU ANS DENEKE…1ST OPTION HAI”YES I LUV U”,2ND OPTION HAI”HA MAI 2MSE PYAR KRTI HU”…AUR YE OPTION DENEKE BAD MERA SPANA TUTJATA”…”AB TUM BTAO MUJHE KI 2MARA ANS KYA HOTA IN DO OPTION MESE…” TO MAINE KHA YE QUES HI INVALID HAI,KYUKI NO KA OPTION HI NAI HAI..USNE KHA NAI IS SWAL KA ANS TUME INI OPTION MESE HI DENA HOGA…MAINE KHA MAI ANS KYU DU,YE 2MARA DREAM THA,AUR OPTIONS B GALAT HAI… TO VO KEHTA NAI EK OPTION TO BOLO HI KYUKI MAI JANA CHATA HU KI TUM ANS ENG ME DETI YA HINDI ME…vo merese ha bulvana hi chata tha par mane apna ans diya hi nai aur kha agr na option hta to vohi ans hota…aur usdin mje yakeen hogya tat hi luv me..phr mai use ignore aur krne lgi…phr valentine aya aur usne mjhe at last propose kiya rose deke niche jhuk k…mane uska rose liya nai..aur kha mjhe 2me koi interest nai aur mai ye sbme involve nai hna chati..usne usdin kuch nai kha…aur mane dhire use apni pblm btai tat luv krna MERELIY galt h bcoz jb marig hi possible nai hai to isme padnese kya faida isliye mje bhuljao..usne kha mai kaise apne zindgi ko bhul jau..tbse leke ajtak usne mujse kisi na kisi tarikese pdai k silsilese cntct rkha h aur mje 15-20 br propose krchuka hoga..i feel really sympathy for him…i dnt luv him…par mere bas me agar use marig karna hta to krleti kyki itna tru lv nai milta hai kbi…mai uske liye bhot roi hu…hmesa ye kosis krti ki vo mjse nafrat kre…bhot bura bolti…par use mjpe kbi aise gusa nai aya..aur na dur gya…kbi kbi to kha ki mera bf hai mai alrdy kisise lv krtihu..par vo nai mana aur na dur hua…mere father nai hai aur meri mom mjse promise liya h ki kbi aisa kam mat krna jise mje kbi dukh ho..and i know that intercaste marig is not possible nai hai…aur meri mami ko b bhot dukh hoga agar mai lv k chakar me padi…ladki ki ijat se badkar kuch nai..aj 6(six) saal hogye hai aur vo aj bhi mere jwab ka intajaar kr rha hai..maine hmesa use na hi kha na kbi use aisa signal diya ki use lge mere dilme kuch hai..phr b vo mje nai chod rha..usne kha jbtak 2mari marig nai hti tbtk mai 2mse dur nai jaunga aur jisdin marig hogai to 2mari life me problem naho isliye contact nai krunga khud apr intajar tb b rahega.aur puri jindagi rahega intajar kyuki ye jindagi 2mare nam hai..usne ye diaolog b kha”2mhe pehli bar dekhtehi mujhe 2mse pyar hogya tha”,aur mje lag gya tha ki 2me god ne sirf mereliye bnaya h..vo muje apna lucky charm manta hai,kehta hai jbse 2m mili ho tbse mai bhot khus rehta hu,sb acha hota hai meri life me..aur age b acha hoga…god ne yha tak mera sath diya h to age b jarur denge.. pta hai ajtk use do ldkiyo k propose b mile..usne mna kr diya…maine to use ek bund b luv ni diya..aur usne mjpe lv ka pura sagar udel diya..mai aj b apne khokle values pe kayam hu..mera farz pehle meri ma ko khus rkhna hai kyuki unko mai dukhi nai dekh sakti kbi..meri zindagi unike nam hai tbi mane ajtk use ha nai kiya…wase propose to mje 12-15 mile hai par aisa lv nai deka jo vo mjse krta hai..itna intajar kaun krta hai aj ki date me..mai hi uska 1st lv hu…uske dost uski story sunke rote hai..aur shyd mje koste honge ye kehke ki kaisi ladki hai abi tak ha nai kiya aur tal k rkhe hai..par schai yahi hai maine to use ajtak na kiya dur janeko kha sb clear kiya..aur meri family k liye mai kuch b karsktihu…to usko na b krdiya…jo meri bat smaj skta h…usehi pta chalega ki mai kya feel krihu is situation par…bhot roi b hu..kash vo meri jindagi me kbi nai ata..par kyu aya kyu mje sapne dekne pe majbur kiya jo kbi pure nai ho skte..vo ek bar mere ghar mera hath mangne jarur ayega aur kosis krega ha krwaneki..isi umeed pe vo aj b dur nai jara..par mje 100% pta hai na hi hoga aur ye bat maine use smjai par vo mana nai..mere har dukh me vo shamil hota hai..har bar raste me mijata jb b mai coaching jati..use time b pta hta hai mere bina btaye…frends ap hi btao mai sahi hu na apne descision pe?meri jga koi aur hoti to use ha bolke use bhot sari khusi deti par mai is situation me nai ki ha bolu..mai bhot roti hu par apne usool nai tod skti na mom ko kbi dhoka deskti.. mje pta hai kai log jo meri story padenge vo mujhe galt samjenge kyu maine na kiya..unhne koi mere jaisi nirdayi ldki shyd deki nai hogi…par mai btarihu mai itni nirdayi nai hu…bht roti hu bs meri ma and family ko haq h meri marig ka dcision leneka..mai to jan b deskti apni make liye to luv kya chej hai…vo keht use mjme rab dikta hai…aur mai kehtihu ki mai marig se phle kisime rab nai dekhskti,mera lv krna gunah hai alag caste me..LOG KEHTE HAI KI NA UNHONE NA KOI MERE JAISI LADKI DKHI JO SINGLE HO AUR ITNE DIN TAK KISIKE TRU LV KO HA KIYE BINA REHSKTIHO,AUR NA KOI AISA LADKA DEKHA JO ISS JMANE ME KISI EK LADKI K LIYE ITNA INTJAR KRSKTA HO JINDAGI BHAR,VO B DO PROPOSE MNA KRKE..MUJE APNE HALAT PE GUS ATI HAI KBI KBI..PAR MUJE SUKUN JARUR MILTA H BHOT BCAUSE I AM TRU TO MY MOM..MAI UNHE DHOKA NAI DERI..par ye b pta hai ki mje koi uske jitna tru lv nai milega lifepartner..kash vo hi mera life partner bnta..Ye zindagi ka fasana b kya fasana hai,idhar hai aag si chahat,udhar jamana hai..god plz help me..mera rasta ek hi hai khusika,aur usi rastepe mai chal nai skti…

 

 

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      1. such an adorable story of ur…jst padke dil khush hogaya…..n avika yr……no words fr u jst an salute fr u…….u r absolutely right on ur decisions……such a mature person u r…jst learn smthing Gud frm u thnxx avika…Meri bhi kuch woh ankur jaisi story hai……Bt let it b I’ve undrstnd her feeling n…..m on my way bas lyf mai kuch banke apne parents ka naam kamana hai n khush rhkna hai apni fmly ko…….n all d bst fr ur future avika n to ur mom also…….god bless u all……..:)

    1. ha vo apni jga bilkul sahi hai,aur mai b sahi hu shyd…bs mai use hurt krtihu bcoz he is in lv to me aur isi wjse dukh mje hta h…

      1. ek bat janna chahuga kya ap usko na keh k sahi kr rhi ho kya wo apka apni lyf me wait kr rha h to kya wo glt kr rha h cz if uska true lv h to may b he feel only u or khud ko kisi or ki lyf me hona accept hi ni kr skta ho muskil h smjhna cz me b aj aise hi face kr rha hu n sorry

        1. Sorry kis batka?…apki bato aur q se lagra h ap mje glt smjrhe..uske kuch dost b mje glt smjte h…bt mje pta h m kis cndition me hu vo aplog ni smjskte…mai kya glt hu jo apne mako duki ni dek skti..ya phr tb galt hu jo aj na kiya hai use taki age use kam duk ho…ap sochiye uska aj ka dukh jada hoga ya tbka jb m ha kehkar b kisi aurke k sath marig kari hngi uske samne…aj ka dukh to vo seh lega ye sochke ki jb ladki ne hi ha ni kiya to marig khase hti…lekin us situation ka dukh jb mera ha hoga tb b m uski ni hngi,tbka dukh kaise jhelega…ye dukh to maut se b badtar hoga…ise better mera ajka na hi krna h..na koi umeed dekega aur na koi sapna to phr tutneka utna afsos b ni hoga….

          1. mene to ni pr syd ap glt smjh rhi ho mujhe but apki bato se lgta ki ap b unme se hi ho jo kosis se pehle hi har man jte h but bst of ur lyf n hats off 4ur decision gud luk for him syd ap smjho or usse bat kr k ek br kosis kro if apko uska lv true lgta h to

    1. thnks abhi..apko pta h…mai use jitni bar mna krti hu ya rudely bat krtihu…to mujhe bhot guilty feel hta hai…aur bhot rotihu…par ye sb uski bhalai k liye hi to hai…maine phle b kisiko ha ni kiya apne usoolo ko ni toda kbi…par itna dukh ni hua…iske liye dukh hta h mje…

  1. avika family har kisi k liye important hoti h aur hum b family k khilaf nhi ja sakte but apko itna true love krne wala nhi milega kuk wo apko bht pyar krta h apke liye b bht mushkil hota hoga kuk apne sachha pyar krne wala partner khoya h aur hume life mai dubara itna pyar krne wala nhi milega nd apne sahi kiya h …….

    1. thanks sanaya,,i know itna tru lv mje kbi nai milega…isi batka dukh hai…ki khus hou ki tru lv mila,ya dukhi hou ki vo milke b nai milega..

  2. Tumari story se yhi lagta hai ki tum bhi use baut chahti ho but family problem ki vajah se chup ho, yar 1 bat karne me kya burai hai uska bhi dil rakho kaun kahta hai mummy k against jao but tumhe bat to definitely karni chahiye….

    1. Tanya…
      i dont no whether i luv him or not…but i am sad becoz he is the one tat loves me tru…afterall every one wants tru luv…and i cant get it…mereliye zindagi me bas yhi imp hai ki mje sacha luv mile bhle mjhe usse luv ho ya na ho,but mai hmesa khus rehti uske sath bcoz he luvs me…..and bus mera ha b uska sacha luv dekh k hota…but schai to yahi hai ki hm ek ni hoskte..its impossible…to phr aj uska man rakh k kyu use age aur dukh doon…aj use agr koi b umeed dikh gyi to badme use aur jada dukh hoga mjhe khoneka…aj mai uski nai hui,to age vo b sochega tat vo to meri kbi hui hi nai to itna dukh ni hoga use mje bhulaneme…agr aj use apna dream ka rasta najar agya…aur badme jb vo dream pura ni hua to sbse jada dukh usehi milega…kbi kbi to mai use yeh kehdeti hu ki mai waisi ni hu jaisa tum sochre…mai bhot gandi hu..aur kisi aurse krtihu..par vo sb janta h..

  3. Shubham Chaudhary

    Tum dono hi apni apni jagah sahi ho ,tum apni ko dukhi nahi dekh sakti aur wo tum me hi apna sab kuch dekhta hai.

    1. I know meri mom nai manegi, hr parent apne child ko khus dekna chata hai par hr matter pe unke akele ka decision ni hota,kuch decision custom and society ko dekh k kiye jate h…..and mai unko emotionly force ni krskti jbki mje decision pta h bcoz of society it will b a big no….

  4. tm jesi beti allah sb prnts ko de n dear ap ek bar apni mon se bat kr k dkhe sirf itna k wo kya chahti h is masle par n jo wo chahti h wo hi hoga chahe unka ans no hi ho but ek bar unki raye lena zruri h best of luck mashallah aisa pyr bht km logo ko milta h

    1. thanks atiya for ur support, but its impossible…ye hmari family me kbi nai hua koi b intercaste marig..aur my dad is no more so i m really worried about my moms happiness..and mai koi extra tension from my side nai dena chati..and abi tak mai in sb chejo se dur hu..aur age b dur thek hu taki sab theek ho and i always wanted to be best daughter of my mom….and isse jada khusi mje nai milegi kbi..naki uske lv se..

  5. Avika g aapne apni mom se promise kiya h or aap ki ma ko aap se bahut si umide hongi please aap Jo bhi fesla kre apni ma ki ijajt k bina na kre………………… Nd i pray that god bless to you………

    1. ha mera faisla na tbi hai…agr vo same caste ka b hta to b na hi hta kyuki tb b mera promise hta maki tarf…and jo unki njar me galt hai vo mereliye b hoga glt…mai atleast unki njaro me njar to milati hu..kisi btka ka guilt to nai hai…na koi jhut bolneka bojh rehta h…mjpe itna viswas krti hai khi b akele jane deti h,uska glt faida ni uthati..mje isi btka sukun h bs…

  6. I think u r in love with him bt aap apne usulo ko nhi tor skte.bt usko ek baar aur payar se smjha dijiye .use ha bol dijiye sayad wo apki feelings ko smjh paye .waise payar ka matlb bhi marrige nhi hoti .bs aap ek baar ha bol dijiye sayad word uska jindgi sawaar de?warna wo buri tarah tut jayega.

    1. Mai usse lv me hu ya nai ye to mjhe b nai pta…bt jb koi hmari bht care krne lgta hai…itna thukrane ke bad b nai jata..mane use hr galt tarikese bt ki,usko bura kha and nicha dikaya…bt use to apne dil ki hi sunni h..tbi uske liye mje bura lgta hai kyuki vo itna tru h h aur itna bura sunke b nai jara…..aur mai takleef me kisiko nai dekh pati…to vo to phr b mera subh chintak h,to use b takleef me nai dekh sakti..

  7. aapki situation b bilkul mere jaisi h.. But aap mujse jyada strong h jo ha nhi kiya.. Aap jitna nhi kah kr ro rhi h usse kahi jyada mai haan kah kr ro rhi hu.. God bless u dear.

    1. mai itni strong nai hu…bs maka khya aur usool ajate hai mere age and sb uske cmpare me piche hojate h…ha kehkar jb sapna pura nai hoga to dard aur jada hoga and vo dard shyd vo jhel na paye…isliye better hai aj na hi ho taki jo sapna vo dekhna chahta hai uski shuruwat hi naho…atlast end to bura hi hna hai..bs dard km hojayga mere nase..vo sochega jb mane hi ha ni kya to marig khase hoti..

  8. avika tum sahi thi kyon ki pahele maa .bap phir koi well mujhe bahat acha laga ki tumne ha nahi ki .ok byeee.

  9. avika mere sath v aisa hi hua hai. mai jisse pyar karta tha .uska naam Khusbu .thi and uski sadi 7april ko fix ho gai hai.mai to bhul ne ki kosis kar raha hu par bhul nahi pa raha kya kar mai .
    avika us ladke ke intjar se yad aya(JANE KYON JIYE JA RAHA HU
    KHUN KE ASHU PIYE JA RAHA HU .
    GAM KE SAGAR ME DUBE HUYE
    KISI KA INTJAR KIYE JA RAHA HU)

    mai khusi ke pyar me sahyar ban gaya hu
    well avika jaha v raho khus raho

    1. sonu jis situation mei aj 2m ho, mai aisi situation me use kbi nai dekna chati…tbi mera no hai…aur hmesha no rahega…kyuki mje pta hai aj agr ha boldu to meri marig thodi na hojygi usee,,lekin use mere ha se bhot sapne dikne lge…aur atlast jb meri khi aur hogi tb uska kya hoga vo apse beter kaun janega…is wjase mai use bhot rudely bat krnepe mjbur hogai hu…taki vo mujse koi umeed na rkhe…and mere ethics sbse upar hai…baki sb family pe hai..

  10. Ufff god kitni difficult situation h. . . N aapka uske liye dukhi hona ya rona ye btata h k u also lvs him bt dnt wnt 2 express. . N i thnk u should share ur problem with ur mom coz as v knw parents cant see us worried so share this wid ur mom bcoz u evn dnt knw abt hr decisn upon it . . Lt c wht she want if she denies thn obviously u should leave that guy. . Bcoz fr u , ur family is imprtnt than other things. . God bless u

    1. Mayyu,,,maine to hr kosis ki usko apnese dur krneki…bt vo hrjga miljata hai…aur hr tarikese cntct krta h ki it becomes un avoidable…and mai apni ma se bat nai krskti…mai unke chehre pe apni wjase koi b tension ni dekh skti…now she is alone to bear all situations…without dad…so care 4 her so much…and i m a gud human being so mujhe uska b dard aur bina manjil ka intjar dukh dera h…usne mje ha krneko b ab mna krdiya kyuki use pta h mera na hmesa rhega…kehta h sidhe 2mare ghr ake bat krenge..mje 2mse koui umeed nai h..

    1. atiya my decision will always be no…agr maine ha krdiya hota to meri story b sabse match krti…ki do lvers they and unka lv ka end happy nai hua…bt yha to maine hi use koi umeed nai dikhai..aj ka mere na ka thoda dard vo jhel lega…naki vo dard jhel payega jab mai ha krdungi aur fir b mai uski nai hongi…isliye ye dard better h uskeliye…

  11. avika.. Meri story or aapki story me bs itna difference h ki aap use na kah kr rula rhe ho or mai haan kah kr or jyada rula rhi hu… Agr us ladke ka pyar sachh h to vo aapka intjaar krega.. Or achi jagah stand ho kr aap ki mmi se baat jrur krega.. Avika mere b papa is duniya me nhi h or marte time mera name sanjivani rakh k chale gye.. Mai na apni family ko dukhi de skti na use.. Bs god se hi pahli or aakhiri umeed h hme milane ki..kyoki society ki taraf se dekhe to na caste same, jyada study dfrnce, na jmeen h us k paas, or mera spna yhi ki family ki khusi se usse shadi ho..pls meri story b jrur pdna.jalad hi lakhugi.

    1. dr i wud surely read ur story….and ha vo kehta h ki ek akhiri umeed h jo vo jarur ayega mere ghar bat karne apne parents k sath,chahe mai kitna b mna karu…

    2. sheena 2mne story post kardi kya….kya title h?
      sheena ek bat kehti hu yar pyar to dobara koi milskta h tru, bt ma ka lv khi nai milega dusra…apni mako btana jo b ho bt decision unka hi akhir me consider krna ok…maka lv koi replace nai krsta..2m apni mako abhiman bano…kbi kamjori mat banna…hoskta h ma emotionally touched hoke 2mara decision man le bt vo dil se khus nai rehpayengi bcoz of society…so unko aisi situation me mt lana kbi jha vo dukhi hojaye…and vo single h ab to unka koi support krnewala b nai h 2mare alwa…ek beti hi maki sbse bdi supporter hoti h…ok…and gud luck…apka jo b life partner bne vo ya koi aur apko bhot chata ho apse b jada…..

  12. Avika fmly to sab ki hoti hai…and sab ko mom dad boht payare bhi hote hai…aj kai time mai true lov mila boht mushkil hai.agar mila hai to uski kadar karo …starting mai problms hoti hai but time kai sath sab thik ho jata hai…and apne koshish bhi nhi ki mom se bat krne ki ya fir manane ki ,,,,,koshish kare bhi har manna ye to galat hai….agar koshish nhi karoge to life mai ye bat hamesh pareshan karegi to kash koshis kar leti,.isliye apko tey karna chiye ek baar mom se bat krne ki ,,ha agar nhi mante…to wo apke uper depend hai app kya karna chye hooo….

    1. preeti 2m sahi kehriho ki family to sbki hoti aur sbi pyar krte h family se…tb b to log family ko dukh pahucha kar bhag jate hai ya emotionly blckmail krke apni bt mnvate…..bt m selfish ni hu,tbi thoda b tense me ni dekh skti apni khusi k liye mom ko vo b meri wjase….ye to mere hath me hai ki unko takleef se dur rkna…whi m kri…first achi and tru beti priority h…aur phr sb badme…

  13. nice stry…aur tum sahi ho….apne jagah par ek baat hai ek bar apni mami ko zaror batana ki koi asa v hai is duniya jo tumse v zayda tumhe pyar karta hai aur care kartha hai….

    1. thnks…sorry bt m ni bta paungi…my mom cant even imagine this situation is going on with me…bcz m ghr me bht nrmly rehtihu aur jaisi hmesa thi waisi hi aj b..ha par vo jarur btayega mere ghar…chahe m kitna b mna krlu…

  14. @RAVI,,,ha vo tru lv krta hai bt mje meri mam ki khusi jada pyari…donomese ek hi option h…and mai isme khus jada hu…naki unko dukh deke apni khusi dhundu,itni selfish ni bnskti kbi….Baki use jo try jo krna hoga apni tarf se krega,,,bt m apna promise break ni krungi…

  15. if ur hppy wid that to bs itna kahuga ki ap jo kr rhi ho wo sahi h cz kisi or ko dukh deke khud k liye khushiya dhunna pyr ni hota n its ryt ki uska lv true hoga but apka usse kahi jda jo apko apni mom se h or ur really gud cz jis trh sacha pyr muskilo se gira hota h ussi trh hmre riste so bst of luk n again hats off 4u n ur mom

  16. nthng 2say u cz its nt mean ki if pyr ho to usko pana jaruri h or if pyr k liye apno se ldna pde to syd ye bevkuffi h but relly i hv no word in dis time ki wt i said 2u

  17. Yaar payar tumhe bhot pehale ho chuka tha lekin tum use exsept nhi kr parhi te. Same stoy meri b h. Jb hame pata h ki hamare perenst nhi mange to ham ku kisi ki life karab kre. Best of luck ur life. Dear.

  18. avika ap apne mom se baat kare. Nahi to ye soch kar dukh hoga ki mera true love mere pas ta , but kuchh himmat kar k mom s baat kar li hoti to life kuchh aur hoti

  19. Yar, avika why are u so much conservative.
    i don’t know that im right to comment or not becoz im not so much experienced in all these but agar mai tumhari jagah hota to atleast ek bar apne guardians to convince karne ki koshish zarur karta.
    once talk to ur heart n if it replies +ve then go for it.
    atlest it worths a trail.
    sorry if any of my words have hurt you.

  20. @sudeep,bat promise ki hai..tbi m apni tarfse ek percent b invlv ni hne dungi iss matr me jo mje apni mom se kuch chupana pde..bht dukh hta kch b chupakar..ek guilt feel hta h..so i wnt to b tru to my mom atleast..nd uski trfse jo kosis hogi use rokneka mje b haq ni nd tb wqt anepe uske bre me usike thru pta chlega mom ko..nd tat wil decide my destiny were to mve on.

    1. Then i will only say “go with the flow”.
      Concentrate on ur goals..
      leave everything on time 2 decide.

      but i swear on saying..”time kafi der. me decide karti hai”
      One thing more don’t feel guilty becoz u r one of the guys whose first priority is family.
      wishing gud luck for u in future.
      take care

  21. @ashish koi aur sugestn ni milatha 3 idiot k alawa..yha sb serious h nd u r joking..bt its ok isme apki galti ni h..

  22. @ravi,i m nt happy with descisn kyki dono side pe koi hurt to hoga hi..nd hurting sm1 is nt in my nature..bt jb donoko cmpare krke sochtihu to mje isme takleef km hti h..nd tbi mra dcisn ye h i.e moms side….mana ki shyd tru lvr ni milega life partnr bt mom ki jga b to koi ni milegi..

  23. tum q nai tumare mom se baat kar le the . I think you love him more than that boy . Tum bi kabi kush nai raha sakthi.aur vo bi kabi kush nai raha saktha .

  24. hey guys..my final decision is moms happiness…she is best and special person in my life…so her happines is on the top for me…and kisika lv dekh k mai apni life k specail person ko hurt thodina krskti hu…i lv my mom..and unke age unse jada koi imp ni for me…

  25. Hiii Avika kitne dinse tumhari story padh ni thi but open nai ho rahi thi finaly aaj padhli … Avika u r 100% right i m agree with u dear because duniya me Hame sabse jyada agar koi love karta heto vo he mom or vo ladka tumhe mana ki true love karta he bt ma k jitna karta he kya ? or aap sab Ese kyu galat bol rahe ho batav ae apni ma ko khushi dena chah rahi he kya galat kar rahi he ? Avika aaj k zenration me koi aesa nai sochta jo tum ne socha i salute u dear and aese hi apni mom ka support karna Q Ki (really sorry) tumne kaha ki tumhare dad nai he ab aese me usko tumhara hi support he agar tum aesa karogi to vo tut jayenge yar and never give tears in parents Eyes because 1 vo hi log he jo life time Hamard aansu po6te he or Ham uski aankho me aansu dekar apne chehre pe hasi kese la shakte he ? He koi jo batayega muje ae ans do fir Avika ko galat bolna and Avika i m proud of u dear i will pray 4 u and dekhna aap ki ma jinse aapki shadi karvayengi vo aap ko us ladke se b jyada khush rakhenga because ma ka dil kabhi galat nai Hota…god bless u

      1. U Hearty well come avika mene sirf sach Hi kaha kyu ki tumne kaam Hi aesa Kiya He k Tumko salute karne ko Jee Karta He and Dear Life me apne parents ki khushi se badi koi khushi nai He Always yaad Rakhna Aap and u r the daughter jise dekh k aesa lagta he k agar beti Ho to Aesi Ho jo apne se pehle apni ma ka itna dhyan Rakhti He yaar story to bahot padi par tumne dil khush kardiya yar and Avika 1 baat yaad rakhna k duniya me parents jitna love kisi ko koi kar Hi nai shakta or unme b maa yar god me b itni shakti nai He ki maa k jitna pyar kar shake always b Happy my Friend take care…

  26. avika apne shi kiya but apko unke bare m v sochna chahiye na ak bar ap apni mom se bat krke dekhti to sayd koi solution nikl jata ap apni or uski bat mom ko btaingi to apki mom ko or kya chahiye jiske 7 ap khus rh skte ho agr vo apko mil jaye to apki mom v khus hongi ki apko itna pyar krne wala lyfpartnr mila h plz ak bar try jrur krna agr mom na kh de to……. ap apne dsgn pr shi hongi. plz ak bar unke liye v sochna bst of luck avika……..

  27. Avika..u r d best..yr gajab ki ladki ho tum yr..realy hats of 4 u..god mai aisa kbi ni krskti u r miracle..i lv my mom yr lyk u..unki khusi k lie anytng..n plz plz avika apne jhalle ko jane mt dna…usse teri shadi ho ya na ho bt both u r in lv wid eachothr..uska pyar tru h or tu b apne jgh shi h

    1. vini sochneki jada jarurat hi nai pdi..ma k liye to kuch b kurbaan h…bt ha sacha lv bht muskil me milta h, i knw…bcz mje kisiko na krneme itni takleef nai hui bcz mje unme schai ni dikhi…jitni isko na krneme hui…bcz he was a tru lver and m nt sure abt my future and my wud b life partners lv….

  28. thank u to all frends…u made my moral even more high…thank u guys…and i m 100% sure to myself tat i m right…thanks NISHA,TEJAS AND ALL OF U…ALL D BEST TO U ALL TOO AND THANK FOR READING MY STORY…

  29. frends aplogko clear karu ek bat…maine uske bre me marig se related ya luv ka socha hi nai kbi…bcoz mjhe jab pta hai ki isse hurt hoga meri family ko…so ise hi kyu…maine hr kisiko na kiya…mra koi bf ni rha ajtk…bcoz it was my decision…and mje lv h use ya nai ye to mane socha nai…bs dukh issbtka tha ki koi itna lv krta h and use dukh milta h…bs…my story is all about it…not of my luv…

  30. U Hearty well come avika mene sirf sach Hi kaha kyu ki tumne kaam Hi aesa Kiya He k Tumko salute karne ko Jee Karta He and Dear Life me apne parents ki khushi se badi koi khushi nai He Always yaad Rakhna Aap and u r the daughter jise dekh k aesa lagta he k agar beti Ho to Aesi Ho jo apne se pehle apni ma ka itna dhyan Rakhti He yaar story to bahot padi par tumne dil khush kardiya yar and Avika 1 baat yaad rakhna k duniya me parents jitna love kisi ko koi kar Hi nai shakta or unme b maa yar god me b itni shakti nai He ki maa k jitna pyar kar shake always b Happy my Friend take care…

  31. ha yr ek dam unique story te tmre….. janti ho us ladke ki tarah mai bhi ek ladki se ek dam aise hi pyar krta ta…. aur usne bhi mujhe mna kr diya ek dam tmre tarah….

    aur kya bolo tm bhi galat nahi ho….

    1. yes ankur u hav to understand her…uske liye jo chej jada matter krti h usipe uska faisla b based h…aj kal itne pyar krnewaleko na krneki himmat bht kam log me h bcoz ye jamana tru lver se jada cheaters se bhra h and bht kam tru lv wale milte h..tru lv ko na krnekeliye b himmat chaiye hti h…

      1. are yr avika…… har ladki tmre tarah bhi nahi hote h…. uske liye mere se acha koi aur ta….. is liye usne hme reject kiya…. maine 4 saal use friendship ki ….. aur jaise hi b.tech ktm hua use friendship bhi ktm kr di….. apna no. bhi change kr diya aur hme diya bhi nahi…. pr yr hme ab bhi bahut yad ate h woh…… i miss her…

        1. ANKUR ek bat kahungi apko…ap usko bhuljao…usse achi ldki god ne apke liye chuni hogi…and waise b lv usse krna chaiye jo hmse krta ho…usse nai jisse hum krte h…usko koi aur pasand hai to vo apko kbi khus nai rkh skti…apko usse beter miljygi…fikr not…:) 🙂 🙂 🙂

  32. Avika for ur story i’m saying only one word that is “wowww!”
    ye hi mai khta hu sbse ki jisne hme jnm diya h uska dil mt dukhao… Tmne ye socha apni family ke liye ye sbse accha kiya aur tm apne aap ko kosti ho ye glt h mere hisab se tm ek idiol beti ho apni family ke liye… Nd shayad jo tmhara raja ayega tmhe lene wo tmse bht pyar krega tm jaisa jiwansathi pakar nd shayad aisa posbl hota to mai apni autograph dairy me tmhara autograph leta…i’m vry lucky jo mujhe aisi ladki ki story pdne ko mili…

  33. Rehan…ahm ahm… mje digestable nai hori 2mari tarif…tarif krte krte kuch jada nai boldiya…meri jindagi ki puri story janeko mili ye kafi nai h kya …tb b autograph ki bat kre…..bhai story pdhi apne thanks and decision ko acha btaya uskeliye b so much thanks….al d best to u 4 d future…

  34. SHEENA 2mne story post kardi kya…REPLY ME?
    sheena ek bat kehti hu yar pyar to dobara koi milskta h tru, bt ma ka lv khi nai milega dusra…apni mako btana jo b ho, bt decision unka hi akhir me consider krna ok…maka lv koi replace nai krsta..2m apni mako abhiman bano…kbi kamjori mat banna…hoskta h ma emotionally touched hoke 2mara decision man le bt vo dil se khus nai rehpayengi bcoz of society…so unko aisi situation me mt lana kbi jha vo dukhi hojaye…and vo single h ab to unka koi support krnewala b nai h 2mare alwa…ek beti hi maki sbse bdi supporter hoti h…ok…and gud luck…apka jo b life partner bne vo ya koi aur apko bhot chata ho apse b jada…..

    1. Sorry dear..abhi exams aane vale h or lov k liye padna b jyada jruri h:-P…
      May-june k exams k baad likh kr jb b post hogi sabse pahle aapko btaugi..& thnx.. 🙂
      or bhan jb kisi or k bare me sochne ki kosish se hi saans na aaye.. to aap kb tk apne saans rok sakte ho.fir isse acha to shadi na karvao.km se km kisi or ki zindgi to khraab ni hogi… Usse Shaadi krni to ghar valo ki khusi se krni nhi to saari umar akele hi rahna! Or yar hmari story me to or jyada complicate hoti ja rhi h.bs sb kuch shivji ji k upar chhod rakha h.. Sb ki khusi se apne pyar ko pana god ko pane k equal ho gya h.. Or avika agar bhagvaan ki marji hui to vo sb ko mnalega…

      1. Or agar vo ruth gya to apno ka b nhi pta lagta ki kyu naraaj ho gye. Maine starting me hi apni mom or chhote bhai ko btaya tha..or mujhe pahle se hi pta tha unka reaction..!:-(.but fir b mai unse kuch chhipa kr dhoka ni dena chahti thi… Pta nhi kyu aapse itni prsnal baate share krne ka mn krta h.. Yar mai to kabhi apni bst frnds…
        jo itne time se mere sath h .. Uhne kabhi ye b nhi btaya ki mai kisi ko itne time se chahti hu.. Or maine aaj b sirf aapko msg krne k liye ye site dekhi h..ok bye.gud 9t.take care.gbu.rply mst & i also

  35. Hey avika tmne kb cmment kiya i’dont for sme reasn bt maine bs itna bola jo ek idiol beti ko bolna chahiye tha bs aur tmhe digest nhi ho rhi to market me tablets avalble h le skti ho i’m sure digest ho jayegi nd tm apna lyf time ka luv jo tmhari mom h tm use 6-7 year ke luv ko cmpare kbbbhi bhi cmpare nhi kr skti ho…

    1. thnk for the sugestion…Ya rehan..Never wud i cmpare his lv with my moms luv for me…their is no base for the cmparison…her lv is unconditional..

  36. thnx nitu nd mai bs itna chatihu ki meri mom kbi aisi situation me na pde jha vo apne apko emotionlly blckmail hta feel kre and jbrdsti ha krna pde unko…she shud b free to tke d decision..

    1. REHAN wats ur problem?do u hv any problem?mjse ijajat leli puchneki to ab pucho na?ya phr q ka ans milgya h…q kya tha ye btado bs…i wont ans it…

  37. hey avika thanks dear for ur suggestion…… time ke sath yaadien bhi kam ho jate h…. pr bhul to nahi paunga……

    pr life me age jarur badna h….. to uski yaad me life bekar bhi nahi krunga….

    ha tm bhi agar tmre ghar wale na mane use shaadi krne k baare me jb woh baat krne aye tmre ghar pe……(Bhagwan na kre kbhi aisa ho) pr by chance aisa hua to tm bhi bhul jana………

  38. Aur ha apki trf se apki mom ke liye ye song select kiya h ” mera ek spna h ki dekhu tujhe apno me tu mane ya na mane ki tuhi mere apno me ” n thanx…

  39. thnks rehan 4 d sng….bt still cnfused tat wht was ur ques…ask it once…agr puchna ni tha to pucha hi kyu puchnekeliye…btaiye wht ws ur q…

    1. Rehan 2mare pas koi kam ni h.jb q puchna hi ni h thn bt khatm kro.y r u discusing on d q.apne phle ijajat mangi nd thn ni pucha.so its ok.nd m nt excitd abt d q,i ws jst wndring wht wd b d q,may b relatd to my dad.live nd let us live.gud bye dnt rly

  40. Hi shivani!frm 2day itself try nt to hurt ur mom.She wories 4 u,dnt loose her trust on u.Do wht she wants.nd discus ur matr wid her nd ur bf nd then what she dcides cnsidr it final.Al d best 4 futre, God bless u.

  41. Hi shivani!frm 2day itself try nt to hurt ur mom.She wories 4 u,dnt loose her trust on u.Try to get her trust bck.Do wht she wants.nd discus ur matr wid her nd ur bf nd then what she dcides cnsidr it final.Al d best 4 futre, God bless u.

  42. Okay mujhe is que ka answr btati ho to wo que puchunga que is whts ur crrent age nd apne kis age me pyar kiya tha. Nd i’m medcl student n my exams finishd so i’m also free for 2 mnths ab btaiye…

    1. Mane kb kha mane lv kiyatha,mane to apni story me uske lv ka btaya h pura tat he is tru…and maine kb kha ki mai 2 mnths k liye free hu,jo ap kehreho i m also free for 2 mnths…

  43. Aap bhul rhi ho ki ye luv site h Mai free hu theek se nd luv do logo ke beech hona jruri h tbhi post kr skte h aap apni story pdo theek se jb apke dil me kisi ke liye pyar nhi h to aap royi kyu it’s jokng na aur mai free hu aap nhi maine aisa bola theek se pdo n in bato ko chhodo bs aap ye btao ki apne us cllge me addmsn liya tha jb usse aap mili thi tb apki age kya thi…

  44. Aap bhul rhi ho ki ye luv site h nd luv do logo ke beech hona jruri h tbhi post kr skte h aap apni story pdo theek se jb apke dil me kisi ke liye pyar nhi h to aap royi kyu it’s jokng na aur mai free hu aap nhi maine aisa bola theek se pdo n in bato ko chhodo bs aap ye btao ki apne us cllge me addmsn liya tha jb usse aap mili thi tb apki age kya thi…

  45. Leave it what do u mean gajendra sir 6 sal ke intzar ko apne ek word me cnvrt kr diya leave it wo unka wait kr rha h jb tk unki marry nhi ho jati h kya sir aap bhi na… 6 yrs me kitne din hote h ye to dekhte…aur aap mujhe apni age btana plz avika miss plz

  46. hey rehan,tum wrong keharaheho.Ye love related site hai par isme aisa kuch nai condition likhi hai ki luv dono tarf se hi ho tbhi story post hogi….kisi ka love btanekeliye bhi share karskte hai..ok..and avika ne jis roneke bareme btaya hai vo tum nai samaj skte shayad..uska ye matlb h ki tru luv hai ye dekh kar ha krdeti, kyuki sacha luv milna muskil hai is kalyug me…pyar to bad ki bat h..iss wjase roi kyuki vo tru luv tha…usne ye bhi to kha ki vo luv ke chakar se dur rehti hai hmesha..tum ye bat nai samaj sakte but mai samaj sakti kyuki meri story kuch match karti hai avika se…soch samaj kar bola karo

  47. REHAN itni aschi stry me dirtyness mat failao…aur Ye SITE koi teri fb ka account nahi h joh tu usse uski age puchrah , personal question puchra hai.Tujhe uski age se kya matlab,muje to tujh mehi kuch dal me kala lagraha hai.Sudharja flirty

  48. Sun girish ji abhi mai 19 ka hu shayad tm log mujhse bde hoge ek to sir bolkr respect de rha hu phir upar se jyada bol rhe ho avika g ne to mujhe bhai bhi bola h smjhe tm aur kiski bat kr rhe ho uss ladke ki usne apni puri zindgi avika g ke name kr di hey girish tm smjh skte ho kbbhi nhi ye tmhari smjh se bahar h smjhe sir aur aap avika miss se nhi kh skte ki leave it nd avika g ne kha h ki wo ayega aur unki mom se unka hath mangega…aur ha pyar ek trf se h to mujhe aliya bhatt chahiye dila do girish bhai mai bhi usse pyar krta hu nd aneesha mam aap bhi sun lo smjhi aur girish sir ab to mai allah se avika g ke liye dua hi krunga chahe pure din maszid me hi kyu na baithna pde baithunga aur ab avika di ki shadi hogi to unhi se smjhe sir unhi se hogi dekhlena sir…i think girish g aur aneesha g aap dono ki smjh me agya hoga…

  49. Aur suno dono mai unki age isliye puch rha tha ki us ladke ne avika g ko kb propose kiya tha aur koi ladki 6 sal aise hi wait nhi kr skti tm dono ladki aur ladke me keval ek hi relatn smjhte ho apni mentlty change kr lo smjhe tm dono.

  50. Ek bat tm sun lo avika di kya us ladke se pyar nhi krti tm kya smjh skti ho hmmm tm logo ne us ladke ki band bja di jo 6 sal se unse pyar krta h avika di aunty manengi aur sir ayenge apka hath mangenge dekhna dua krunga aur apki shadi me aunga…km se km us grt prsn se to milne ka mauka milega tmne unke pyar ki tauhin ki h…shayad tm nhi smjh skti

  51. rehan neither i m not waiting for him nor any one else to come and ask me from my mom ok..i told al abt his lv and my cndition of promise and lv 2wards mom…ok…read carefully my stry..nd dnt get sad by others comment..

  52. plz my request to all dont argue plz nd stop creating bad environment…bs story padho and apne views do agr dena ho bs…tats it..dnt make me hurt by commenting such…

  53. To ye log aisa kyu bol rhe h apne mujhe bhai nhi bola kya…mai ye pta krna tha ki kya aap bhi unka wait kr rhi ho mai smjh skta hu apki fealng unke 6 yrs ke pyar ke pyar ko aisa kaise bol skte h apka desn apni jgh crrect h bt km se km aisa to na bole…

    1. rehan m 2mare age puchneke swal ko galt nai liya maine..bt it ws too persnl…and i m colg going grl nt ur aunt so u can judge urslf d age…..and i know u r childih type…i took as my brothr..so maine kuch galt nai kha apko..

  54. rehan itna persnl mt lo koi bt..nd 2m kyu chateho meri usse marig ho…m to bs ye chatihu ki meri mom ki choice se marig ho ok and khus rhen meri mom…mane to godse kbi ye b ni manga tat he becomes my life partner,ya phr meri mom manjaye ki meri marig usse ho..to phr 2m kyu itna intrfre kre…and aftrall i m human so kisiko dukh me nai dekhskti,i m very emotionl tbi uska dukh b ni dekhskti iswjse mane ye stry liki..taki mje pta chle tat i m rite aur wrong…mra dil kehta h m rite hu….and kisiko dukh me nai dekhskti iska mtlb ye nai h tat i m in lv wid tat person..its only bcz i m tru and kind herted,very emotionl…

  55. Arey wo apke ghr rishta lekr aye to apki mom ko to koi prblm nhi hogi that unhe to khushi hogi ki meri beti ko itna pyar krne wala insan mila aur ye dono aisa kaise bol skte h aap mujhse to kafi bdi hongi boys aur grls me kya bs ek rishta hota h…

  56. tera stomach full hogya uski age jankar ab,TERESE BADHI H ab tujhe bura lagara hoga janke age.OK.TERI MENTALITY MAI ACHESE JANTA HU SAMJAH.Kya pata teri age galatho.AB reply me in comment mat karna.

  57. Tu apna muh bnd rkh smjha wo meri sistr h teri akal me nhi ghusta h kya itne behuda swal kr rha h.. Tere ghr me maa behen nhi h kya koi kisi ki age puche to tu ye smjhta h kitna cheap h tu teri age kya h

  58. Jo itna cheap ho jo itna ghtiya soch skta h maine nhi socha tha aur sun allah teri surat pe itni fatkare layega na ki tu kbhi soch nhi skta wo meri sistr h teri akal me nhi ata apna muh bnd rkh smjha wo meri sistr h unke bare me to soch unhe kyu beech me larha h tu apni csn sistr se uski age puchega to mai kya smjhu Tere nam girish to rkh diya bt tu apne brain me girish lgana bhul gya ki bhai behen kya hote h

  59. oye rehan tu chup hoja tu e num ka idiot or kamina hai.avikane lika ki i m hurt,uske bad tu usko behan behan bolra.ye nahi sorry boldeta beshram apni galti to manega nahi.

  60. Girish uncle plz apse bhi maafi mangna chahte h aap bhi shayad hmari wjh se hurt huye ho to uske liye so sorry plz maaf kr dijiye nd avika di apko bhi sorry maaf kr dijiye plz…

    1. Hmmm, yaaa obsly i realise n all the best for ur happly future nd maine apko sistr kha h to nani ko meri trf se namstey khiyega plz…plz n bye

    1. sorry Sheena,mai reply nai krpai…actually apne upar msgs ka reply diya nd mai previous msgs padhna bhulgyi…thnks sheena itna shre kiya apne mjse…i m luking frwrd for ur story…ok dear nw u concentrate cmpletly on ur studies ok,dnt compromise wid ur studies…nd sheena give ur mail id..i wud mail u ok and thn we wud b in cntct thru it…sometimes aisa hota h ki kisi anjan ko hum apna pura dard achese share krlete bina koi jan pehchan k b sb bt shre krneka man krjta h..jitna hm kareebi se kbi nai krpate…waiting for ur reply…and dear AL D BEST TO U FOR EXAMS…GOOD LUCK..

  61. kya story hai aapki..maan gaye koi love ho to aap jaisa..mai ye nahi kehta ki aap uske pass jao.mai aapki setuation samajh sakta hu.magar ye jarur kahunga ki agar ek bhi mauka mile to us ladke ko mat chodiyega.wo aapse true love karta hai.mai khuda se dua karta hu ki aapko wo ladka jarur mile…aur apni story hamare sath share karne ke liye thanks.

  62. Ek imagine karo ki tumari shaadi kisi se ho gayi h lekin wo phir bhi tumhe itna pyaar na kare toh aap kya karogi agar aap uski jagah hoti toh kya karti pls usse love nhi toh bfrnd toh bana skte ho haan ek baat jindagi m dhyan rakhna ki true love unko milta jo nasib wale hote h ok so tum usse best frnd banao usse thoda share karo ok

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