If you have successfully met someone who youa re seriously interested in and would like to get closer to them, here is an idea. Throw a small party at your house and invite some of your well behaved friends who are not single. Remember you are known by what your friends are. Invite there significant others too. This will show them that you are someone who is stable and serious about a relationship. This will also make the other person feel more comfortable around you. Visit online for some of the party sites to get some ideas on how to throw a party.